Thanksgiving is a time to reflect on the things we are thankful for in our lives. Many families have a Thanksgiving tradition of having each person say a few words about what they are thankful for before digging in to the delicious turkey dinner.
This is a wonderful tradition. But why do we wait until Thanksgiving to think about what we are grateful for? We should all be practicing gratitude on a daily basis. Why? Because it is good for the brain.
I actually did a study on gratitude and appreciation with psychologist Noelle Nelson. She was working on a book called The Power of Appreciation and had her brain scanned twice. The first time she was scanned after 30 minutes of meditating on all the things she was thankful for in her life. After the “appreciation meditation,” her brain looked very healthy.
Then she was scanned several days later after focusing on the major fears in her life. Her frightened brain looked very different from her healthy gratitude brain and showed seriously decreased activity in two parts of her brain.
Her cerebellum had completely shut down. The cerebellum, also called the little brain, is involved in physical coordination, such as walking or playing sports. New research also suggests that the cerebellum is involved in processing speed like clock speed on a computer and thought coordination or how quickly we can integrate new information. When the cerebellum is low in activity, people tend to be clumsier and less likely to think their ways out of problems. They think and process information more slowly and get confused more easily.
The other area of her brain that was affected was the temporal lobes, especially the one on the left. The temporal lobes are involved with mood, memory, and temper control. Problems in this part of the brain are associated with some forms of depression, but also dark thoughts, violence, and memory problems.
In Noelle’s scans, when she practiced gratitude, her temporal lobes looked healthy. When she frightened herself with negative thinking, her temporal lobes became much less active. Negative thought patterns change the brain in a negative way. Practicing gratitude literally helps you have a brain to be grateful for.
In addition to enhancing brain function, experiencing gratitude has been shown to have antidepressant effects. Feeling gratitude lifts your mood and fills you with grace.
Patients often tell me how good it feels to recognize positive things and cool people that are part of their lives. Pets, friends, sunshine, physical health, jobs, family, parks, music, exercise, and food are all examples of things depressed patients have been grateful for.
I recommend that every day, you focus on five things you are grateful for. Write them down on a sheet of paper. You can print out this page and write them down here.
5 Things I Am Grateful For Today
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