Personality Disorders

  • Distrustful, suspicious, and skeptical of other people and their motives 
  • An unsubstantiated belief that others are trying to deceive or harm them 
  • A belief that others are untrustworthy and disloyal 
  • Finding secret, threatening meanings in casual, non-threatening remarks and glances 
  • A reluctance to share personal details with others based on the unfounded fear that the information will be turned against them 
  • Reacting with anger or aggression to perceived criticism 
  • Holding grudges and being unforgiving 
  • A belief that they are always right 
  • Unfounded suspicion that their spouse or significant other is unfaithful 
  • A preference for solitary activities and jobs
  • Disinterest in forming close relationships
  • Limited range of emotional expression
  • Lack of interest or pleasure in most activities, including sex
  • Having trouble relating to others
  • Appearing to be distant
  • Looking like they don’t care about others 
  • Odd thinking patterns, behaviors, and beliefs
  • Paranoia and suspicion
  • Social anxiety
  • Difficulty forming close relationships, except with immediate family members 
  • Distorted perceptions, such as misinterpreting a noise as a voice
  • Believing they have psychic powers or other magical thinking 
  • Appearing to be distant or indifferent to others 
  • Disregarding and violating the rights of others
  • Lack of remorse
  • Inflated sense of self-worth
  • Repeated lying, stealing, cheating, using aliases, or conning others
  • Frequently disregarding laws and social norms
  • Heightened irritability
  • Aggressive or violent behavior
  • Recklessness and lack of concern for safety for themselves or others 
  • Impulsivity
  • Irresponsibility that results in problems with finances and work
  • A distorted sense of self
  • Extreme emotional reactions
  • Inappropriate emotional responses
  • Extreme mood swings
  • Excessively impulsive behavior, such as substance abuse, unsafe driving, unprotected sex, or overspending 
  • Unstable relationships
  • Lack of empathy
  • Intense feelings for people that swing from love to hate (also known as “splitting”)
  • Extreme fear of rejection or abandonment
  • Intense anxiety, worry, and depression
  • Hostility
  • Unstable career goals
  • Unrealistic aspirations
  • Self-harm, suicidal thoughts or attempts
  • “Out of body” feelings (also called dissociative feelings)
  • Paranoid thoughts (often related to stress)
  • An exaggerated sense of self-importance
  • A need for excessive and constant admiration
  • A lack of empathy
  • Preoccupation with grandiose fantasies of unlimited success, money, or power 
  • A need to be recognized as superior or special and a belief that they can only keep company with people of equal exceptionalism
  • A sense of entitlement to special treatment
  • A tendency to exaggerate accomplishments or talents
  • Manipulation or exploitation of others
  • A belief that others are envious of them, while deep down they are envious of others 
  • An arrogant, haughty, or demanding attitude
  • In need of constant attention and approval
  • Overly emotional and dramatic
  • Inappropriately sexually suggestive
  • Easily influenced by others (highly suggestible)
  • Shifts quickly from one strong emotion to another, appearing shallow
  • Feeling that casual relationships are more intimate
  • Excessively concerned about physical appearance
  • Overly sensitive and distressed by criticism or rejection
  • Fixated belief that others will emotionally harm them or be condescending 
  • Avoidance of situations or careers that involve socializing
  • Extreme shyness in social settings
  • Poor self-image and belief they are awkward and not likeable 
  • Difficulty getting close in relationships
  • Fear of trying new things because they might embarrass themselves 
  • Overly dependent on others and feeling the need to be taken care of
  • Taking a submissive role in relationships
  • Extremely needy
  • Fear of having to take care of oneself if left alone
  • Looking to others to make even the smallest decisions
  • Hesitant to express disagreement due to fear of disapproval
  • Willing to take on unpleasant tasks to gain approval or support
  • Desperate to seek out a new relationship as soon as one ends
  • Stubbornness and inflexibility
  • Preoccupation with orderliness, organization, schedules, and rules
  • Extreme perfectionism
  • Need to feel in control of situations
  • Hesitant to delegate tasks
  • Excessive dedication to work to the detriment of relationships and hobbies
  • Difficulty parting with broken, used, or worthless items with no sentimental value
  • Extreme frugality in spending money