Do I Have ADHD…or Am I Just Lazy?
Do you leave things until the last minute? Have trouble getting motivated? Flake out on boring chores? You may have grown up with people telling you to “just try harder.” Parents, teachers, coaches, and other authority figures may have told you that you have a lot of potential but that you need to apply yourself. They may even have called you lazy. But is your problem just being lazy, or could you have ADD/ADHD?
LAZINESS VS. ADD/ADHD
People with ADD/ADHD have brains that work differently than those who don’t have the condition and differently from lazy people. People who are lazy typically don’t make an effort to complete tasks at work, school, or home. ADD/ADHD people, however, may try really, really hard but still can’t tackle what they want to accomplish. This can lead to frustration, low self-esteem, and feeling bad about your abilities. Do you leave things until the last minute? Have trouble getting motivated? Flake out on boring chores? You may have grown up with people telling you to “just try harder.” But is your problem just being lazy, or could you have ADD/ADHD?COMMON SIGNS OF ADD/ADHD
To understand if your issues are due to ADD/ADHD, which affects an estimated 4.4% of American adults, check to see if you have these common symptoms associated with the condition.- Short attention span. People with ADD/ADHD have trouble keeping their attention on boring, routine, everyday tasks (such as washing the dishes, filling out reports at work, or emptying the trash). If you have a short attention span, you may forget about a task altogether, start it but not finish it, or do a rushed and careless job of it.
- Distractibility. People with ADD/ADHD are easily distracted. This is likely connected to a tendency to notice more in their environment than others. If you’re easily distracted, sounds (like the notifications on a phone), lights, smells, and moving objects may cause you to get off task.
- Disorganization. Having ADD/ADHD is associated with problems with organization of time and space. Being disorganized means you may have a habit of being late or struggling to meet deadlines. You may have a hard time keeping your things organized, so your office desk, drawers, and home may be messy.
- Procrastination. People with ADD/ADHD often put things off until the last moment. You may not start a project until a deadline is near or until someone else is angry with you for not doing it.
- Poor internal supervision. It’s common for people with ADD/ADHD to have poor judgment and impulse control. They tend to say or do things without considering the consequences, and they don’t always learn from their mistakes.
- Lack of motivation. People with ADD/ADHD may struggle with motivation, which is one of the key reasons why they are labeled as “lazy.”




