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11 Signs of Adrenal Fatigue: Stress-Related Adrenal Exhaustion

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Adrenal exhaustion, also known as adrenal fatigue, is one of the most common yet most overlooked health problems in recent times.

Feel tired all day long, even after a good night’s sleep? This could point to one of the most overlooked health concerns: signs of adrenal fatigue caused by excessive stress on the adrenal glands.

The adrenals are a pair of triangle-shaped glands that sit on top of your kidneys, and they take center stage in your stress resilience, cognitive function, and hormone balance. The truth is adrenal exhaustion, also known as adrenal fatigue, is one of the most common yet most overlooked health problems in recent times.

Adrenal exhaustion, also known as adrenal fatigue, is one of the most common yet overlooked health problems in recent times.

WHAT ARE THE ADRENAL GLANDS?

The adrenal glands are involved in producing adrenal hormones in the body, including cortisol, which is involved in the fight-or-flight response.

Imagine that you’re hiking through the woods with your children when suddenly, a mountain lion appears. Immediately, your heart starts pounding and your adrenals begin producing adrenaline and other hormones to give you a quick burst of energy to fight the lion or pick up your children and run away as fast as you can.

The problem is that your body doesn’t recognize the difference between one kind of stress and another. Whether it’s physical stress at the sight of a mountain lion or mental stress caused by working 60 hours at your job each week, your body reacts the same way: it pumps out loads of stress chemicals.

When running from the lion, you put the chemicals to use and get them out of your system—no problem. But many people are faced with the latter type—intense mental stress—daily, and eventually, it can lead to adrenal exhaustion.

WHAT IS ADRENAL FATIGUE?

In our go-go-go society, we experience stress regularly. Traffic jams, relationship problems, and last-minute work projects mean that we’re stressed from the time we open our eyes until we hit the sack at night. This can cause our adrenal glands to go into overdrive, making them produce the hormone cortisol continuously.

Prolonged exposure to chronic stress can lead to adrenal glands burning out, manifesting as key signs of adrenal fatigue, such as persistent tiredness, difficulty concentrating, and low energy levels. We call this adrenal exhaustion, adrenal fatigue, or adrenal gland failure, and it reduces your body’s ability to cope with daily stressors.

When this occurs, you may feel fatigued throughout the day, have trouble tackling or completing chores or tasks associated with daily living, and may find it difficult to perform at work.

Adrenal fatigue can also make you fat—especially in your abdomen, which increases your risk for cardiovascular disease. Chronic exposure to stress hormones also kills brain cells in the hippocampus, a major memory structure in the brain.

WHAT CAUSES ADRENAL FATIGUE?

Chronic, unrelenting stress is one of the primary contributors to signs of adrenal fatigue, which can also result from poor sleep, an unhealthy diet, or exposure to toxins. Chronic stress can affect the function of the pituitary or adrenal glands, leading to adrenal fatigue.

 

One of the contributors to chronic stress is a lack of sleep. An estimated 50-70 million Americans aren’t getting enough of it, according to statistics from the State of Sleep Health in America in 2022. If you aren’t getting adequate sleep—approximately 7-8 hours at night—your body enters a state of stress overload.

Other potential causes include a poor diet, excessive use of caffeine or stimulants, chronic pain, negative thinking patterns, emotional trauma, exposure to environmental toxins, and food sensitivities.

In addition to these issues, people with adrenal fatigue may also have low levels of DHEA, a master hormone that is involved in the production of many other hormones.

DHEA levels generally begin to decline once a person hits age 30 and may be depleted in some people with medical and mental health issues, such as anorexia, end-stage kidney disease, type 2 diabetes (non-insulin-dependent diabetes), AIDS, and more.

Certain medications, such as insulin, steroids, and opiates, may also play a role in lowering DHEA levels.

11 Warning Signs of Adrenal Fatigue You Should Know

Wondering if you or a loved one might have adrenal exhaustion? Look out for these signs of adrenal fatigue:

  1. Decreased ability to withstand stress
  2. Mental fog with poor memory and difficulty concentrating
  3. Morning and afternoon fatigue, lack of stamina
  4. Abdominal fat that doesn’t go away, no matter what you do
  5. Low libido
  6. Cravings for sweets or salty foods
  7. Hypoglycemic (low blood sugar) under stress
  8. Dizziness when getting up from a sitting or lying position
  9. High blood pressure and rapid heartbeat
  10. Signs of premature aging
  11. Recurrent infections and poor wound healing

In addition to these, there are other symptoms that may indicate adrenal fatigue, such as muscle weakness and mood changes.

If you notice these symptoms, it’s a good idea to discuss them with a healthcare provider who is familiar with adrenal fatigue.

DIAGNOSING ADRENAL FATIGUE WITH BLOOD TESTS

Getting diagnosed with adrenal fatigue can be challenging. This is why it’s important to see a medical professional, such as an integrative medicine (or functional medicine) physician, who is familiar with the condition.

Diagnosing adrenal fatigue often requires evaluating cortisol and DHEA-S levels, especially if you’re experiencing persistent signs of adrenal fatigue, such as morning fatigue and difficulty concentrating.

In some cases, blood tests may not be helpful, however, saliva tests may be beneficial in helping to detect abnormal levels.

ADRENAL INSUFFICIENCY: A RELATED CONDITION

Adrenal insufficiency is a condition where the adrenal glands do not produce enough hormones, particularly cortisol. This can be caused by damage to the adrenal glands or a problem with the pituitary gland, which regulates the adrenal glands.

Depending on the underlying cause, adrenal insufficiency can be categorized as primary, secondary, or tertiary.

  • Primary adrenal insufficiency, also known as Addison’s disease, occurs when the adrenal glands are damaged, often due to an autoimmune disease, infection, or tumor.
  • Secondary adrenal insufficiency occurs when the pituitary gland does not produce enough adrenocorticotropic hormone (ACTH), which stimulates the adrenal glands to produce cortisol.
  • Tertiary adrenal insufficiency occurs when the hypothalamus, a part of the brain that regulates the pituitary gland, is damaged or not functioning properly.

Symptoms of adrenal insufficiency can include fatigue, weight loss, low blood pressure, and darkening of the skin. If left untreated, adrenal insufficiency can lead to serious complications, such as an Addisonian crisis, which is a life-threatening situation that requires immediate medical attention.

WHEN TO SEEK MEDICAL HELP

If you’re experiencing any of the following symptoms, seek medical help immediately:

  • Severe abdominal pain
  • Vomiting
  • Diarrhea
  • Abdominal tenderness
  • Low blood pressure
  • Rapid heartbeat
  • Confusion
  • Seizures
  • Coma

If you’re experiencing any of the following symptoms of adrenal issues, make an appointment with your healthcare provider:

  • Fatigue
  • Weight loss
  • Muscle weakness
  • Low blood pressure
  • Darkened skin
  • Low blood sugar
  • Nausea and vomiting
  • Diarrhea
  • Abdominal pain
  • Joint pain
  • Hair loss
  • Mood changes

It’s also important to seek medical help if you have a history of adrenal insufficiency or Addison’s disease and are experiencing any of the following:

  • Increased thirst and urination
  • Dizziness or lightheadedness
  • Headaches
  • Muscle cramps
  • Numbness or tingling in the hands and feet

Early diagnosis and treatment of adrenal insufficiency can help prevent serious complications and improve quality of life.

NATURAL REMEDIES TO SUPPORT ADRENAL FATIGUE

If you’re noticing signs of adrenal fatigue, incorporating natural remedies can help restore adrenal function:

  • Stress-management techniques: Reducing stress is key to recovering from adrenal fatigue.
  • Meditation: Making meditation part of your daily routine can calm stress.
  • Self-hypnosis: Using hypnosis to put yourself into a state of relaxation can be very beneficial.
  • Kill the ANTs: Eliminating automatic negative thoughts (ANTs) can help reduce stress and worry.
  • Eliminate nutritional stressors: Avoid caffeine, alcohol, sugar, and processed foods.
  • Eat foods that support adrenal function: Focus your diet on foods that are nutritious, low in sugar, and high in fiber.
  • Nutritional supplements:
    • B vitamins—either in foods like green leafy vegetables or in supplements—support the adrenal system and help our bodies deal with stress.
    • 5-HTP helps you sleep and boosts serotonin levels in the brain, which helps you calm stress.
    • Phosphatidylserine can also be helpful for adrenal fatigue.
    • DHEA, if levels are low, is an important supplement to counteract adrenal fatigue.
    • Adaptogens: Some research shows that adaptogens improve stress resistance.
    • Vitamin D: Some studies have linked low vitamin D levels to the overproduction of cortisol and suggest that supplementation with vitamin D may be beneficial in adrenal diseases.

Recovering from adrenal fatigue takes time. Remember, it took months or even years to wear down your adrenal function, so it will take some time to heal. The best way to accelerate the healing process is to adopt healthy lifestyle changes that reduce stress and support adrenal function.

Reviewed by Amen Clinics Inc. Clinicians

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How to Know If Your Mental Health Treatment Is Working

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Finding the right mental health treatment can feel like a slow process. You might expect dramatic shifts, but progress often involves small steps that build

Finding the right mental health treatment can feel like a slow process. You might expect dramatic shifts, but progress often involves small steps that build over time. Noticing these incremental gains can help on your healing journey.

One study found that taking responsibility and ownership of your mental health—not solely relying on your psychiatrist or therapist—drives better mental health outcomes.

Here are 10 ways to know if your mental health treatment is working so you can continue to improve. These signs may come as gentle shifts rather than huge transformations, but they’re powerful proof that you’re on the right track toward better therapy outcomes.

10 SIGNS MENTAL HEALTH TREATMENT IS WORKING

Common treatment options for mental health problems include helpful forms of therapy, natural solutions, nutritional supplements, lifestyle changes, and psychiatric medication (when needed). If you want to know if your treatment program is leading to better therapy outcomes, look for these signs.

1. You’re more aware of your feelings and triggers.

One of the first signs that mental health treatment is working is increased self-awareness. You may find yourself more attuned to your emotions and start identifying specific triggers that influence your mood.

This awareness can help you navigate challenges with greater understanding and control. Once you start to feel more in control of your emotions and be more aware of your moods, it can be easier to implement the new strategies you learn in therapy.

2. You’ve adopted healthier coping strategies.

Effective mental health treatment often involves learning and using healthy coping strategies. If you notice that you’re replacing old unhealthy habits with new ways that reduce stress, calm anxiety, and alleviate low moods, this is a great indicator of progress.

You’ll most likely start to look forward to implementing practices instead of turning to less helpful outlets. Here are a few things you may start using:

  • Diaphragmatic breathing to self-soothe and take control of your anxieties
  • Journaling to identify your triggers and track what works and what doesn’t
  • Motivation to enjoy movement or the mental energy to exercise again

3. You respond more thoughtfully to others.

Progress in your healing journey can also reveal itself in how you respond to people around you. Rather than reacting impulsively with anger, anxiety, or negativity, you might find yourself pausing before responding to choose a more measured reaction. This growth in your emotional regulation is a key indicator that you’re getting better.

Reactive mood disorders, such as borderline personality disorder and certain forms of depression, often involve intense responses to triggers. Gaining control over these automatic reactions shows that your treatment plan is helping you manage emotions in a healthier way.

This can help you improve interactions with others, mend relationships with loved ones, and strengthen your resilience in challenging situations.

4. You engage in kinder self-talk.

Mental health treatments often involve reshaping how you talk to yourself. If you catch yourself using gentler language and being less critical of yourself, it’s a sign you’re on the path to improvement.

Negative self-talk can be one of the hardest habits to break, so every step toward compassion in your inner dialogue is a positive sign of mental growth.

5. You have fewer automatic negative thoughts (ANTs).

In the early 1990s, Amen Clinics founder Dr. Daniel Amen coined the mnemonic ANTs—for automatic negative thoughts—to explain the different kinds of unwanted and unhelpful thoughts that get stuck in your mind. These ANTs crawl around and undermine your mental well-being.

If your mental health treatment is working, you may notice these ANTs are less frequent or less intense than before.

This doesn’t mean they will disappear completely. It does mean that you’re getting better at challenging them. Questioning your negative thoughts is the best way to help you break the cycle of self-doubt and gain a better perspective of your circumstances.

6. You have more energy.

​​The right treatment for mental disorders can make noticeable improvements in your energy levels by addressing underlying issues that drain your physical and mental stamina.

Mental health conditions like clinical depression, anxiety disorders, and chronic stress often come with symptoms of exhaustion, burnout, trouble focusing, and a lack of motivation. With an effective treatment plan, you may find that you have more enthusiasm to engage in activities you once enjoyed.

As your mood improves, that low-energy state starts to lift, and you can feel more energized to take on daily tasks without feeling overwhelmed. This is an encouraging sign that your treatment is helping. As stress decreases, your body conserves energy and you’ll feel refreshed and more resilient through your mental health journey. 

7. Your relationships are improving.

Mental health doesn’t exist in a vacuum—it affects your relationships too. If your connections with family, friends, or partners are becoming stronger and less stressful, it’s a clear sign you’re getting better.

Working with a mental health professional may be improving your communication skills and providing deeper self-awareness. This shows that the positive changes within you are extending outward.

The ripple effect of better personal relationships can reach your professional life as well. This can reduce the amount of stress you need to juggle on a daily basis and allows you more space to invest in your social life as well.

8. You have more mental clarity.

Progress in your mental wellness brings a greater sense of clarity in your thoughts and actions. If you notice your mind is feeling less cluttered and you’re able to focus better, you’ll also be able to organize your thoughts and reduce mental fog.

You’ll find it easier to make decisions and stay engaged in activities without feeling mentally drained. The importance of clear goals for effective mental health treatment cannot be overstated.

A 2020 study found that people who felt unclear about their therapy goals tended to feel less connected to their therapist, experienced more severe symptoms, required more sessions, and felt less reliant on their therapist.

Overall, this shift in focus and organization is a powerful sign that your mental health treatment is helping you feel more in control and grounded in your daily life.

9. You’re noticing more micro-moments of happiness.

If you find yourself noticing more little moments of happiness—whether it’s a smile from a stranger, a warm cup of tea, or the sound of birds singing—these are powerful signs of positive mental health progress.

Remember, progress isn’t about perfection; it’s about small, positive changes that add up over time. Take time to care for your mental, physical, social, and spiritual health so you can enjoy those personal happy moments without overthinking.

10. You feel more hopeful.

One of the most rewarding indicators of a successful mental health journey is an increase in hope. If you find yourself looking forward to the future and believing that things can improve, you’re experiencing a profound mental shift.

Feeling hopeful is a cornerstone of better therapy outcomes in an effective mental health treatment. It fuels the courage you need to keep going and gives a clearer perspective on your journey with the confidence to keep moving forward.

NOTICE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH PROGRESS

Every moment matters in your growth toward healing. You can use these insights to guide your next steps in the right direction on your roadmap to healing and growth.

It can be easy to overlook these signs when you’re focused on everyday struggles, but they’re worth celebrating. If you’re noticing even a few of these changes, it’s a good sign that your mental health treatment is moving you in the right direction.

Reviewed by Amen Clinics Inc. Clinicians

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Anxiety, depression, and other mental health conditions can’t wait. At Amen Clinics, we’re here for you. We offer in-clinic brain scanning and appointments, as well as mental telehealth, clinical evaluations, and therapy for adults, teens, children, and couples. Find out more by speaking to a specialist today at 888-288-9834 or visit our contact page here.

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7 Natural ADHD Treatments You Can Start Today

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Do you or your child have trouble focusing, staying organized, or completing tasks? It could be attention-deficit disorder (ADD), also known as attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder

Do you or your child have trouble focusing, staying organized, or completing tasks? It could be attention-deficit disorder (ADD), also known as attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). If you (or a loved one) have ADHD, you may think stimulant medication, such as Ritalin or Adderall, is the only answer. It’s not.

ADHD medications, while effective in increasing neurotransmitter levels to enhance focus and manage symptoms, can have potential side effects. Many natural treatments for ADHD are backed by science, offering effective ways to manage symptoms without relying solely on medication.

If you (or a loved one) have ADD/ADHD, you may think stimulant medication, such as Ritalin or Adderall, is the only answer. Wrong! Many natural ADD/ADHD solutions are backed by science.

Although research in the journal Plos One found that the usage of stimulant medications for ADHD doubled from 2006-2016, it isn’t the only option. Scientific findings reveal that natural treatments for ADHD can improve symptoms like short attention span, distractibility, poor impulse control, procrastination, and disorganization, offering holistic approaches for better focus and behavior.

If you’re one of the 4.4% of adults in America who are affected by ADD, or your child is among the over 6 million youngsters who have this condition, you may benefit from some of these natural strategies. In some instances, natural ADHD remedies can help reduce or eliminate the need for prescription stimulants.

If you or your child are currently taking ADHD medication, be sure to discuss your situation with your healthcare provider before making any changes to your prescription medication.

UNDERSTANDING ATTENTION DEFICIT HYPERACTIVITY DISORDER (ADHD)

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by symptoms of hyperactivity, inattentiveness, and impulsivity. It is a complex condition that affects both children and adults, impacting their daily lives, relationships, and overall well-being.

ADHD is not a result of poor parenting, too much screen time, or a lack of intelligence. Rather, it is a brain-based disorder that requires a comprehensive treatment approach.

ADHD symptoms can vary from person to person, but common signs include difficulty paying attention, following instructions, and completing tasks. Individuals with ADHD may also exhibit hyperactive behavior, such as fidgeting, restlessness, and impulsivity.

These symptoms can lead to difficulties in school, work, and social relationships, making it essential to seek professional help for proper diagnosis and treatment.

7 NATURAL REMEDIES FOR ADHD

  1. Nourish the ADD/ADHD brain with nutritional supplements.

Nutritional supplements are among the most effective natural treatments for ADHD, addressing deficiencies in vitamin D, zinc, magnesium, and ferritin that are often seen in individuals with this condition. Fish oil supplements, rich in omega-3 fatty acids, are often discussed for their potential benefits in treating ADHD symptoms, though reviews from experts are mixed.

Taking a high-quality daily multiple vitamin/mineral supports healthy levels of foundational nutrients. Similarly, studies have found that people with ADD/ADHD generally have lower levels of important omega-3 fatty acids.

Supplementing with omega-3s can improve issues with impulse control, attention, and hyperactivity, according to findings in Translational Psychiatry and the Journal of Lipids.

  1. Avoid stimulating substances.

Avoiding stimulating substances like caffeine and nicotine is a vital step in implementing natural treatments for ADHD, as these substances can worsen symptoms over time.

At Amen Clinics, brain SPECT imaging studies show that, over time, caffeine and nicotine reduce activity in the brain. SPECT is a type of brain scan that measures blood flow and activity in the brain.

During concentration in people with ADD/ADHD, SPECT scans show that there is typically lower activity in the prefrontal cortex, and this can be compounded with caffeine and nicotine use.

Additionally, consider exploring alternative treatments such as nutritional supplements, exercise, and dietary changes, which may offer non-stimulant options for managing ADHD symptoms.

  1. Get moving.

Physical exercise enhances blood flow and activity in the brain, which can improve focus and attention. The benefits of intense physical exercise are so great, that it should be viewed as supplemental medication to improve ADHD symptoms.

  1. Put devices away.

Limiting screen time to no more than 30 minutes a day can make a significant difference in children with ADHD. A study in Plos One found that preschoolers who spent more than two hours of screen time per day had “clinically significant” increases in ADD/ADHD symptoms, such as attentional problems.

  1. Eat to heal ADHD symptoms.

Consuming a higher-protein, lower-simple carbohydrate diet can help with focus and attention in most people with ADD/ADHD. As part of natural remedies for ADHD, dietary changes are crucial in managing symptoms. There is one exception, however.

People who have Over-Focused ADD—one of the seven types of ADD identified by Amen Clinics—usually do better with a diet that includes higher levels of complex carbohydrates.

  1. Find out if other issues are contributing to ADD/ADHD symptoms.

Research shows that 60%-100% of kids with ADHD also struggle with co-existing disorders. And these co-occurring conditions can last into adulthood.

For example, head trauma, depression, and hormonal imbalances are common in people with ADD/ADHD. Another condition called Irlen Syndrome, which is a visual processing problem, is commonly seen with the condition.

Brain SPECT imaging, in addition to lab testing, can help determine the root causes of your (or your child’s) symptoms.

Randomized controlled trials show that treating any co-existing conditions can be a critical part of the process of healing from ADD and in managing ADHD symptoms.

  1. Try behavioral therapy for ADHD treatment,

Behavioral therapy is a crucial component of ADHD treatment, helping individuals manage their symptoms and improve their overall functioning. This type of therapy focuses on teaching new skills, behaviors, and strategies to overcome challenges associated with ADHD.

Behavioral therapy can be tailored to meet the unique needs of each individual, whether it’s a child, adolescent, or someone with adult ADHD.

There are several types of behavioral therapy used to treat ADHD, including:

  • Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT): Helps individuals identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors.
  • Behavioral modification: Focuses on reinforcing positive behaviors and reducing negative ones.
  • Social skills training: Teaches individuals how to interact with others, develop relationships, and improve communication skills.
  • Parent training: Educates parents on how to create a supportive environment, set clear boundaries, and encourage positive behaviors.

Behavioral therapy can be conducted individually or in a group setting, and it’s often used in conjunction with ADHD medication and other treatments. By addressing the behavioral aspects of the condition, individuals can learn to manage their ADHD symptoms, improve their relationships, and enhance their overall quality of life.

TARGET NATURAL TREATMENTS FOR YOUR TYPE OF ADD/ADHD.

As discussed earlier, SPECT scans show that there are seven types of ADD/ADHD. Natural ADHD remedies, such as relaxation practices, mindfulness, and lifestyle changes, can benefit both children and adults experiencing different types of ADHD. Knowing which ADD/ADHD type you (or your child) have is an important step in finding the most effective natural solutions.

We Are Here For You

ADD/ADHD and other mental health conditions can’t wait. At Amen Clinics, we’re here for you. We offer in-clinic brain scanning and appointments, as well as mental telehealth, clinical evaluations, and therapy for adults, teens, children, and couples. Find out more by speaking to a specialist today at 888-288-9834 or visit our contact page here.

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7 Differences Between Male and Female Brains

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In one of the largest functional brain imaging studies ever, Amen Clinics compared the brain SPECT scans of 46,034 female and male brains, and it

Does your toddler or preschooler struggle with hyperactivity, impulsivity, or inattention? Are they prone to tantrums or appear overly sensitive? If so, you may wonder if these are just normal phases of childhood, or if they indicate attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), also known as attention deficit disorder (ADD).

Many children can demonstrate the early signs of ADHD, such as restlessness, outbursts, or lack of concentration. Parents may expect them to “grow out” of these tendencies by their later years. But if they do have the neurodevelopmental condition and carry it into adulthood—especially if they remain undiagnosed and/or untreated—it can negatively impact their entire lives.

Today, we have more knowledge than ever about this common mental health condition, which affects 7 million (11.4%) children ages 3-17, according to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC). Children who are found to meet the criteria for ADHD can be diagnosed as early as 4 years old.

Recognizing the earliest warning signs of ADHD is key to getting kids the help they need. In this blog, you’ll discover seven ADD symptoms every parent needs to know.

EARLY-CHILDHOOD RISK FACTORS FOR ADD/ADHD

A retrospective study of risk factors for ADHD in different stages of infancy found that eight elements were significantly associated with the condition’s later development. At 0-1 month old, these factors were:

  • Advanced maternal age
  • Lower maternal education
  • Family history of ADHD
  • Social problems (such as divorce, socioeconomic difficulties, and parental illness)

At 3 and 18 months, a decrease in head circumference growth was associated with later ADHD. And, at 9 and 18 months, there were correlations found between ADD, delays in motor and language development, and having a difficult temperament.

A 2023 systematic review of 48 articles also found that temperament in infancy or toddlerhood could indicate an early risk for childhood ADHD. Moderate associations were found with activity level, negative emotionality, and sustained attention.

The first two of these were found to be “predictive of all three symptom dimensions (i.e., inattention, hyperactivity/impulsivity, and combined).” The third, sustained attention, was associated only with combined symptoms.

Further research will help explore the links between ADHD’s development and sustained attention and inhibition in a child’s earliest months and years.

Finally, in an overview published in Health Psychology Research, a variety of genetic, neurobiologic, and neurochemical factors were explored as contributors to ADHD in young children. These include:

  • Heredity and genetics
  • Brain structure, neurobiology, and neuropsychology
  • Cognitive dysregulation
  • Pregnancy or birth complications
  • Exposure to environmental toxins
  • Parenting styles
  • Diet

EARLY SIGNS OF ADD/ADHD

What does this mean for parents who are concerned about possible early symptoms of ADHD in their child? Here are some early signs of ADHD to look out for in your toddler or preschooler:

  1. Poor coordination and a tendency to be accident-prone.

The overview mentioned above notes that ADHD in children can manifest with poor motor coordination or motor performance and balance.

These children are also more prone to accidental injuries and physical trauma, including head trauma, which itself can lead to or exacerbate ADHD symptoms.

  1. Impulsivity.

One of the hallmarks of ADHD, impulsivity in a preschooler or toddler may present itself as speaking before thinking, impatience while waiting, or interrupting others.

An impulsive child may also yell or scream when they’re frustrated, get physical with other kids, or run into the street without looking for oncoming vehicles.

  1. Impaired academic performance.

Once a child reaches preschool, their performance may already be compromised by the academic challenges associated with ADHD. One of the early signs of ADD in preschoolers, trouble with paying attention, impacts their ability to learn in a traditional classroom.

Parents working with their child’s teachers may be instrumental in helping children with ADHD perform better, which is one benefit of early diagnosis.

  1. Sleep disruption.

A 2022 study published in Frontiers in Pediatrics noted that children with ADHD are more likely to have sleep disorders.

This association works in both directions. Not only does the degree of ADHD symptoms correlate with sleep disorder severity, but sleep disorders can trigger or worsen the symptoms of ADHD.

  1. Sensitivity and intense emotions.

In the retrospective study mentioned above, researchers found that temperamental and behavioral problems in children 9 and 18 months old are “an important predictive factor for the development of ADHD.”

This may take the form of excessive crying during infancy. Later, these children displayed issues with sensory integration, attention, and behavioral development.

Emotional hyperarousal, emotional dysregulation, and rejection sensitive dysphoria are some of the common emotional issues faced by those who have ADHD.

Parents may notice that their child has intense reactions or stays “stuck” in emotions for longer periods than would be expected. Or perhaps their child has more, or longer-lasting, tantrums and outbursts, or frequently shows signs of frustration.

  1. Behavioral issues.

A 2021 study reported that 40% to 60% of children with ADHD also have oppositional defiant disorder (ODD). Another behavioral disorder that may overlap with ADHD is conduct disorder. Harming oneself and/or others (with behaviors such as biting) may also become an issue in children with ADHD.

  1. Constant movement.

Young children with ADHD can be excessively restless or fidgety, with difficulty sitting still and paying attention. They may be constantly in motion and excessively talkative. Parents may have trouble getting them to sleep, eat a meal, or focus on tasks.

TREATING ADHD IN TODDLERS AND PRESCHOOLERS

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics’ (AAP) Clinical Practice Guideline for the Diagnosis, Evaluation, and Treatment of Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder in Children and Adolescents, ADHD criteria can be applied to children as young as ages 4-6. The guidelines advise medical professionals to note symptoms across multiple settings, such as home and preschool.

The most common treatment prescribed at these early childhood ages is parent training in behavior management (PTBM). The AAP explains that this consists of helping parents learn:

  • What to expect in terms of age-appropriate development
  • Behaviors that will help strengthen the parent’s relationship with the child
  • Useful skills to help manage problem behaviors

Parents who have spent time implementing and incorporating these strategies at home can then report their results to the medical professional, as well as provide a picture of the child’s persistent symptoms and struggles. This enables a more accurate ADHD diagnosis.

Brain SPECT scans can also help in the diagnosis of ADHD in toddlers and preschoolers. Because there are seven different types of ADD/ADHD, it’s crucial to pinpoint which type is interfering with a child’s development. With brain scans, clinicians can then determine an effective and personalized treatment plan.

Many doctors rely on prescription medications for childhood ADHD, and they can be highly beneficial for some kids. However, stimulant medications are not effective for all ADD types—and they may even cause harm. In addition to ADHD medication or in lieu of it, children can reap significant benefits from all-natural lifestyle changes, including:

  • An elimination diet that removes sugar, gluten, dairy, corn, soy, and artificial dyes and sweeteners from the diet (to rule out potential allergies)
  • A higher-protein, lower-carbohydrate diet
  • More exercise
  • Sleep hygiene and increased sleep duration
  • Less screen time
  • Supplements such as omega-3 fatty acids

Parents can also help by rethinking traditional discipline measures, which may not be helpful for children with ADHD. Instead of yelling, threats, and anger, these children tend to respond to different strategies. Remaining calm and positive will help better guide their behavior.

Finally, because there is a genetic component associated with the condition, parents of children with attention problems may want to undergo screening for ADHD themselves. At Amen Clinics, many adults with ADHD only learn about their condition after bringing in their child for an evaluation.

HELPING ADHD TODDLERS, PRESCHOOLERS, AND PARENTS

It’s never easy to be a parent. But it can be even more challenging when you’re parenting a child who shows the early signs and symptoms of ADHD.

Fortunately, we know more than ever about what to watch for in our toddlers and preschoolers—as well as the benefits of early diagnosis. With vigilance, patience, and understanding, we can help ensure that they are given the best chance of success in life.

Reviewed by Amen Clinics Inc. Clinicians

We Are Here For You

Brain and mental health conditions can’t wait. At Amen Clinics, we’re here for you. We offer in-clinic brain scanning and appointments, as well as mental telehealth, clinical evaluations, and therapy for adults, teens, children, and couples. Find out more by speaking to a specialist today at 888-288-9834 or visit our contact page here.

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7 Early Signs of ADHD in Toddlers and Preschoolers

7 Early Signs of ADHD in Toddlers and Preschoolers
When your childhood years are marked by abuse, neglect, or trauma, it can have a negative lasting impact with serious consequences. In fact, adverse childhood

Does your toddler or preschooler struggle with hyperactivity, impulsivity, or inattention? Are they prone to tantrums or appear overly sensitive? If so, you may wonder if these are just normal phases of childhood, or if they indicate attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), also known as attention deficit disorder (ADD).

Many children can demonstrate the early signs of ADHD, such as restlessness, outbursts, or lack of concentration. Parents may expect them to “grow out” of these tendencies by their later years. But if they do have the neurodevelopmental condition and carry it into adulthood—especially if they remain undiagnosed and/or untreated—it can negatively impact their entire lives.

Today, we have more knowledge than ever about this common mental health condition, which affects 7 million (11.4%) children ages 3-17, according to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC). Children who are found to meet the criteria for ADHD can be diagnosed as early as 4 years old.

Recognizing the earliest warning signs of ADHD is key to getting kids the help they need. In this blog, you’ll discover seven ADD symptoms every parent needs to know.

EARLY-CHILDHOOD RISK FACTORS FOR ADD/ADHD

A retrospective study of risk factors for ADHD in different stages of infancy found that eight elements were significantly associated with the condition’s later development. At 0-1 month old, these factors were:

  • Advanced maternal age
  • Lower maternal education
  • Family history of ADHD
  • Social problems (such as divorce, socioeconomic difficulties, and parental illness)

At 3 and 18 months, a decrease in head circumference growth was associated with later ADHD. And, at 9 and 18 months, there were correlations found between ADD, delays in motor and language development, and having a difficult temperament.

A 2023 systematic review of 48 articles also found that temperament in infancy or toddlerhood could indicate an early risk for childhood ADHD. Moderate associations were found with activity level, negative emotionality, and sustained attention.

The first two of these were found to be “predictive of all three symptom dimensions (i.e., inattention, hyperactivity/impulsivity, and combined).” The third, sustained attention, was associated only with combined symptoms.

Further research will help explore the links between ADHD’s development and sustained attention and inhibition in a child’s earliest months and years.

Finally, in an overview published in Health Psychology Research, a variety of genetic, neurobiologic, and neurochemical factors were explored as contributors to ADHD in young children. These include:

  • Heredity and genetics
  • Brain structure, neurobiology, and neuropsychology
  • Cognitive dysregulation
  • Pregnancy or birth complications
  • Exposure to environmental toxins
  • Parenting styles
  • Diet

EARLY SIGNS OF ADD/ADHD

What does this mean for parents who are concerned about possible early symptoms of ADHD in their child? Here are some early signs of ADHD to look out for in your toddler or preschooler:

  1. Poor coordination and a tendency to be accident-prone.

The overview mentioned above notes that ADHD in children can manifest with poor motor coordination or motor performance and balance.

These children are also more prone to accidental injuries and physical trauma, including head trauma, which itself can lead to or exacerbate ADHD symptoms.

  1. Impulsivity.

One of the hallmarks of ADHD, impulsivity in a preschooler or toddler may present itself as speaking before thinking, impatience while waiting, or interrupting others.

An impulsive child may also yell or scream when they’re frustrated, get physical with other kids, or run into the street without looking for oncoming vehicles.

  1. Impaired academic performance.

Once a child reaches preschool, their performance may already be compromised by the academic challenges associated with ADHD. One of the early signs of ADD in preschoolers, trouble with paying attention, impacts their ability to learn in a traditional classroom.

Parents working with their child’s teachers may be instrumental in helping children with ADHD perform better, which is one benefit of early diagnosis.

  1. Sleep disruption.

A 2022 study published in Frontiers in Pediatrics noted that children with ADHD are more likely to have sleep disorders.

This association works in both directions. Not only does the degree of ADHD symptoms correlate with sleep disorder severity, but sleep disorders can trigger or worsen the symptoms of ADHD.

  1. Sensitivity and intense emotions.

In the retrospective study mentioned above, researchers found that temperamental and behavioral problems in children 9 and 18 months old are “an important predictive factor for the development of ADHD.”

This may take the form of excessive crying during infancy. Later, these children displayed issues with sensory integration, attention, and behavioral development.

Emotional hyperarousal, emotional dysregulation, and rejection sensitive dysphoria are some of the common emotional issues faced by those who have ADHD.

Parents may notice that their child has intense reactions or stays “stuck” in emotions for longer periods than would be expected. Or perhaps their child has more, or longer-lasting, tantrums and outbursts, or frequently shows signs of frustration.

  1. Behavioral issues.

A 2021 study reported that 40% to 60% of children with ADHD also have oppositional defiant disorder (ODD). Another behavioral disorder that may overlap with ADHD is conduct disorder. Harming oneself and/or others (with behaviors such as biting) may also become an issue in children with ADHD.

  1. Constant movement.

Young children with ADHD can be excessively restless or fidgety, with difficulty sitting still and paying attention. They may be constantly in motion and excessively talkative. Parents may have trouble getting them to sleep, eat a meal, or focus on tasks.

TREATING ADHD IN TODDLERS AND PRESCHOOLERS

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics’ (AAP) Clinical Practice Guideline for the Diagnosis, Evaluation, and Treatment of Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder in Children and Adolescents, ADHD criteria can be applied to children as young as ages 4-6. The guidelines advise medical professionals to note symptoms across multiple settings, such as home and preschool.

The most common treatment prescribed at these early childhood ages is parent training in behavior management (PTBM). The AAP explains that this consists of helping parents learn:

  • What to expect in terms of age-appropriate development
  • Behaviors that will help strengthen the parent’s relationship with the child
  • Useful skills to help manage problem behaviors

Parents who have spent time implementing and incorporating these strategies at home can then report their results to the medical professional, as well as provide a picture of the child’s persistent symptoms and struggles. This enables a more accurate ADHD diagnosis.

Brain SPECT scans can also help in the diagnosis of ADHD in toddlers and preschoolers. Because there are seven different types of ADD/ADHD, it’s crucial to pinpoint which type is interfering with a child’s development. With brain scans, clinicians can then determine an effective and personalized treatment plan.

Many doctors rely on prescription medications for childhood ADHD, and they can be highly beneficial for some kids. However, stimulant medications are not effective for all ADD types—and they may even cause harm. In addition to ADHD medication or in lieu of it, children can reap significant benefits from all-natural lifestyle changes, including:

  • An elimination diet that removes sugar, gluten, dairy, corn, soy, and artificial dyes and sweeteners from the diet (to rule out potential allergies)
  • A higher-protein, lower-carbohydrate diet
  • More exercise
  • Sleep hygiene and increased sleep duration
  • Less screen time
  • Supplements such as omega-3 fatty acids

Parents can also help by rethinking traditional discipline measures, which may not be helpful for children with ADHD. Instead of yelling, threats, and anger, these children tend to respond to different strategies. Remaining calm and positive will help better guide their behavior.

Finally, because there is a genetic component associated with the condition, parents of children with attention problems may want to undergo screening for ADHD themselves. At Amen Clinics, many adults with ADHD only learn about their condition after bringing in their child for an evaluation.

HELPING ADHD TODDLERS, PRESCHOOLERS, AND PARENTS

It’s never easy to be a parent. But it can be even more challenging when you’re parenting a child who shows the early signs and symptoms of ADHD.

Fortunately, we know more than ever about what to watch for in our toddlers and preschoolers—as well as the benefits of early diagnosis. With vigilance, patience, and understanding, we can help ensure that they are given the best chance of success in life.

Reviewed by Amen Clinics Inc. Clinicians

We Are Here For You

ADD/ADHD, and other mental health conditions can’t wait. At Amen Clinics, we’re here for you. We offer in-clinic brain scanning and appointments, as well as mental telehealth, clinical evaluations, and therapy for adults, teens, children, and couples. Find out more by speaking to a specialist today at 888-288-9834 or visit our contact page here.

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The Long-Term Impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

When your childhood years are marked by abuse, neglect, or trauma, it can have a negative lasting impact with serious consequences. In fact, adverse childhood

Our childhood experiences have a powerful influence on the rest of our lives. When those early years are marked by abuse, neglect, or trauma, it can have a negative lasting impact with serious consequences. In fact, adverse childhood experiences, or ACEs, can set the stage for long-term physical and mental health problems.

A 2024 neuroimaging study published in Frontiers in Psychiatry and conducted at Amen Clinics confirms that having more ACEs is closely associated with heightened risk of mental health conditions, such as anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and substance use disorders.

In this blog, you’ll learn more about adverse childhood experiences, how they impact brain development as well as physical and mental health in adulthood, and how to overcome childhood trauma for better brain health and mental wellness.

WHAT ARE ADVERSE CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES (ACEs)?

For decades, researchers have been looking into the many possible consequences of adverse childhood experiences. Experts have been studying how traumatic events in childhood impact people not only during their early years but also in adulthood.

Research shows that ACEs are very stressful and traumatic and can interfere with normal developmental processes. They also increase the risk for health problems and psychiatric disorders.

In 1995, the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) and Kaiser Permanente undertook a large-scale study to identify the extent of ACEs in a group of 17,337 adult participants. This study also looked at the long-term effects of ACEs.

Adverse childhood experiences were surveyed using eight specific questions that covered neglect, abuse, and household dysfunction, such as witnessing domestic violence.

The results of this research found that nearly 25% of those in the study had been exposed to three or more of the eight ACEs that were being studied at that time. The fact that the participants were primarily middle-class Caucasian adults was a clear indication that ACEs can happen in almost any household.

However, it is now well-known that chronic poverty, community violence, and racism can also negatively impact a child’s physical and mental health and development.

WHAT IS THE ACEs QUESTIONNAIRE?

Since the time of that groundbreaking study, the ACEs questionnaire has had some minor modifications. The latest version is comprised of 10 questions that cover adverse and traumatic experiences a child could be subjected to or witness while growing up. The categories include:

The scores on the ACE questionnaire range from 0 to 10, with zero meaning no exposure and 10 indicating a person was subjected to significant—if not profound—levels of trauma before age 18. The higher the score, the higher the long-term health consequences a person can be at risk for.

Of note, the ACE questionnaire is not a stand-alone diagnostic assessment. It specifically addresses only negative experiences, not positive ones. It’s not necessarily predictive of future problems, although those correlations exist.

 

Rather, it’s intended to be used as a guide for clinicians and community health workers to identify services that can benefit the child and family.

For a deeper understanding of the ACEs questionnaire, tune in to the Change Your Brain Every Day podcast, where hosts Dr. Daniel Amen and his wife Tana Amen break down each question.

HOW CHILDHOOD TRAUMA IMPACT THE DEVELOPING BRAIN

The development of a child’s brain is very sensitive to the environment in which they are raised. A loving, supportive, and predictable home environment bodes well for the brain to organize and function in developmentally appropriate ways as the child grows up.

However, for children who are repeatedly subjected to trauma, chaos, abuse, and/or neglect, healthy brain development is often obstructed. When a child is chronically exposed to adverse and traumatic experiences, the brain’s stress activation system—which impacts immune, metabolic, and cardiovascular functioning—is constantly in overdrive.

As the brain develops, the delicate balance of neurotransmitters (brain chemicals) that are necessary for healthy brain function can be disrupted due to the constant flood of stress hormones. This process can also stunt the development of certain areas of the brain, such as the hippocampus, which is important for memory formation.

When enduring toxic levels of stress, it’s as though the child’s brain is stuck in fight-or-flight mode. This can lead to problems with self-regulation, learning, and social interactions, as well as trouble controlling emotions, aggression, and nightmares. Another long-term consequence involves difficulty forming and maintaining healthy attachments later in life.

The negative effects of the adverse experiences can even alter a child’s genes and be passed along to the next generation. 

In a fascinating episode of the Change Your Brain Every Day podcast, Dr. Amen talks in detail about the results of the Amen Clinics study mentioned earlier. The largest brain-imaging study ever conducted on ACEs, it involved over 7,000 participants and used brain SPECT imaging and clinical evaluations to map how childhood trauma affects brain activity.

As he reveals on the episode, the results indicate that higher ACE scores are tightly linked to an increased risk of mental health conditions. The study underscores the importance of brain-focused treatment approaches to mitigate the long-term effects of ACEs.

ADVERSE CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES: IMPACTS ON PHYSICAL AND MENTAL HEALTH

Not everyone with a high ACE score will develop health problems later in life. Some children have natural strengths that can help them navigate the turmoil that surrounds them in a way that other children may not be able to.

 

In addition, having a close relationship with one or more caring adults can help buffer the adversity at home. For example, a teacher may provide extra support for the child. In other instances, a loving relative who cares for the child may provide a temporary refuge from the trauma. These adults can promote a sense of safety that helps the child become more resilient.

However, adults who had multiple ACEs and did not have healthy connections to people around them—nor strengths that were nurtured—can be at an increased risk for physical and mental health problems in adulthood, including:

The connection between high ACE scores and substance abuse is especially strong. In fact, more than 25% of people with addictions report childhood trauma, according to a 2022 study in General Psychiatry. This study also found that higher levels of ACEs was associated with greater severity of mental health disorders.

ADVERSE CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES (ACEs) AND EMOTIONAL BIAS

Neuropsychological testing also shows that individuals who have experienced high levels of childhood trauma have difficulty with emotional awareness and emotional bias.

Emotional awareness and emotional bias tests involve having a person look at images of facial expressions and categorize them as happy, neutral, angry, or disgusted. On these tests, people with high scores on the ACE Questionnaire typically respond slower to happy faces and more quickly to disgusted faces. They also identify fewer neutral faces correctly while recognizing more angry faces correctly.

This contributes to an emotional bias known as a conscious negativity bias. Ultimately, this means people with higher levels of adverse childhood experiences are more likely to have a negative view of the world.

TREATING ADVERSE CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES (ACEs)

Fortunately, certain mental health therapies and lifestyle changes can help mitigate the onset or reduce the severity of ACEs consequences, such as:

  • Address the adverse childhood experiences with a trained psychotherapist to help work through the emotional trauma.
  • Consider Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), which is a powerful treatment for trauma survivors.
  • Seek treatment for alcohol, drug, and/or food addiction.
  • Switch to a healthier diet with lots of fresh produce and omit fried foods, sugar products (including soda), and ultra-processed foods.
  • Exercise regularly and spend less time on the couch.
  • Volunteer in your community to build positive social connections.

On the Change Your Brain Every Day podcast episode about ACEs, Dr. Amen and Tana discuss several other beneficial strategies to help overcome childhood trauma for better mental health.

If you’re an adult who endured the trauma of adverse childhood experiences, start taking good care of yourself now. Incorporating healthier habits and seeking treatment for your physical and mental health issues can open up greater possibilities for your life as you go forward.

We Are Here For You

Emotional trauma, substance abuse, depression, and other mental health issues can’t wait. At Amen Clinics, we’re here for you. We offer in-clinic brain scanning and appointments, as well as mental telehealth, clinical evaluations, and therapy for adults, teens, children, and couples. Find out more by speaking to a specialist today at 888-288-9834 or visit our contact page here.

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Understanding Narcissist Love Bombing: Signs and Effects to Recognize

Understanding Narcissist Love Bombing Signs and Effects to Recognize
Love bombing is when an individual lavishes another person with love “bombs” of attention, affection, and praise early in a new relationship in order to

Has an enthusiastic new romantic partner ever overwhelmed you with effusive texts, frequent phone calls, plans for a future together, over-the-top displays of attention, or lavish you with many gifts? Did it feel wonderful—almost like a fairy tale relationship—but with an undercurrent of unease, perhaps due to the speed and intensity of the romance?

Did your love interest get prickly or refuse to listen when you tried to slow the pace of your romance or set boundaries? If so, you may have been subjected to narcissistic love bombing. And that could spell trouble.

Here’s what you need to know about love bombing, including how it can lead to an abusive relationship and clear signs on how to recognize it.

WHAT IS LOVE BOMBING?

Love bombing is when an individual bestows another person with love “bombs” of attention, affection, and praise in the early stages of a new relationship in order to influence or manipulate them. It’s typically used as a tactic in romantic relationships but may be seen in other types of relationships, such as friendships and work dynamics.

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The term love bomb has become popular over the last several years—especially among young people. Do a search for #lovebombing on TikTok, and you’ll get hundreds of thousands of results!

A 2022 survey found that 70% of more than 1,000 participants, ages 18-55, had experienced some form of love bombing. Women encountered it at a significantly higher rate than men.

In some cases, love bombing may be innocent and seem like normal behavior. However, in other cases, it’s a form of emotional manipulation and abuse, such as with a narcissist love bombing scenario.

At some point, the love-bombing phase stops. A new phase follows, which may include manipulative tactics such as gaslighting, criticism, or controlling behavior, and in some cases, physical abuse and other red flags. Love bombing is not to be taken lightly because it is potentially the start of an abusive relationship.

 

WHAT CAUSES LOVE BOMBING?

People engage in love bombing for a variety of reasons, including:

  • Narcissism, especially individuals with narcissistic personality disorder

  • Attachment issues, such as being overly dependent or a survivor of childhood trauma

  • Loneliness

  • Genuine love

Let’s take a closer look at each of these.

1. Narcissism

Although love bombing is not a diagnostic term, mental health professionals typically use it to describe the manipulative behavior that narcissistic or abusive individuals employ in early romance. It is used to gain power over a person—often someone vulnerable to grand gestures and appearing in need of a “savior.”

Using gifts, affection, and positive attention, the narcissistic love bomber essentially taps into the recipient’s internal reward system. This psychological manipulation helps quickly create a bond that can have addictive-like qualities. This serves to make their partner feel dependent on them.

Indeed, when you’re the object of a love bomber’s desire, you might feel safe, secure, and totally adored. This is because these grand gestures initially boost your self-esteem and make you feel worthy and desired. You might believe you found your perfect match.

However, the secret motive of the love bomber is not simply to seek love. It is a manipulative tactic of narcissistic abuse. Research shows that narcissistic love bombers, who tend to be lacking in self-esteem, ultimately want to gain control over you.

2. Attachment Issues

Not all love bombing is a conscious manipulation tactic. In some cases, unconscious or unresolved attachment issues propel an individual to love bomb.

For example, someone who has an insecure attachment style may love bomb in an effort to “secure” the relationship quickly, because they fear being abandoned. Unfortunately, the love bombing may overwhelm a partner and turn them off, leading to a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Alternatively, an individual with an avoidant attachment style love bombs to feel in control over the level of intimacy. When the partner reciprocates, they typically get overwhelmed by the closeness and push the partner away, which leads to the opposite of love bombing: ghosting.

3. Loneliness

Sometimes love bombing can simply be enthusiasm from a lonely person who is desperate for a friendship or romantic relationship.

4. Genuine love

Love-bombing behavior may be an expression of genuine love, not a manipulative tactic, especially if an individual comes from a family or culture that is demonstrative with affection. In addition, it’s important to note that men tend to fall in love more quickly than women do, research has found.

In general, new love can be overwhelming. Brain-imaging research shows that falling in love affects the brain in a similar way cocaine does. It can trigger a flood of neurochemicals that produce a sense of euphoria.

At the same time, it activates areas of the brain that lead to intense focus and obsessive thoughts about a new love interest. This can make it difficult to tell if you’ve been love bombed or are embarking on a healthy relationship.

On the flip side, new love can reduce activity in brain networks involved in judgment and negativity. The neural systems responsible for critical assessments basically shut down. It’s as if the brain is driving us to fall in love and stay in love.

To protect yourself, it’s important to be able to assess and discern dangerous love-bombing behavior.

HOW TO IDENTIFY LOVE BOMBING SIGNS

Although every relationship is different, nearly all instances of love bombing will include the following:

  • Excessive flattery and praise

  • Constant sharing of feelings

  • Showering you with gifts that you don’t want or need

  • Always wanting to spend time with you

  • Intense talks with you about a future together very early on in the romance (within days or weeks)

Additional signs of love bombing may include:

  • They shower you with over-the-top gestures (a romantic trip for the weekend, creating fairytale-like dates, sending 100 roses, etc.)

  • They say exactly what you want to hear

  • They refer to you as their “soulmate” or suggest your connection is “destiny” or “fate”

  • They push for commitment early in the relationship

  • They get upset with boundaries

  • They’re very needy

  • They want you to respond quickly to texts and calls

  • There’s lots of PDA and posting on social media

  • You feel uneasy like you have to tread lightly

  • They introduce you to close friends and family too soon

  • They prefer you alone, isolated from your family and friends

  • You have a feeling of being “swept off your feet”

  • They seem too good to be true

KNOW THE 3 STAGES OF LOVE BOMBING

Love bombing has 3 stages:

  1. Idealization phase

During this love bombing stage, your partner bombards you with over-the-top expressions of love and affection. It serves to draw you in and let your defenses down.

You may experience a feeling of being swept off your feet or that this new love interest is too good to be true. Unfortunately, their behavior could be signs of love bombing.

  1. Devaluation phase

At this point, you start to relax and get comfortable in the relationship, but red flags begin to appear as the love bombing and idealization phase starts to end.

Perhaps your partner will try to control you by limiting your time with family and friends. You may see flashes of anger, especially if you say no or attempt to set a boundary.

They may withdraw their attention and become critical of you or suddenly cut off contact or blame you for the issues in your relationship. This is called gaslighting.

In some cases, an abusive person will employ other manipulative tactics, like fear and intimidation to control your behavior and may even use physical violence.

  1. Discard phase

When a love bomber realizes they can no longer get what they want from you, they will likely discard your relationship and move on to a new one. This usually happens if you confront them about their harmful behavior or make an effort to implement healthy boundaries.

Love bombers try to avoid accountability. They will typically leave before cooperating or compromising.

If you leave a love bomber—especially one with narcissistic personality disorder— they may return later. Typically, they will begin again with extravagant and lavish gestures in an attempt to win you back. They may also say they will change. However, instead of changing, as they draw you into the unhealthy relationship they simply start a new cycle of abuse.

Experts say that the best indicator of an unhealthy love-bombing situation is your gut feeling. Healthy love generally makes you feel good. Toxic relationships make you feel stressed and uneasy, doubting your perceptions.

RECOVERING FROM NARCISSISTIC LOVE BOMBING

Love bombing can harm your self-esteem and sense of self-worth. You may have feelings of shame and self-doubt for not seeing the red flag waving. It’s not uncommon to feel overwhelmed and confused, wondering how you became so dependent on a person you hardly knew. Be understanding and kind to yourself.

Love bombing is a form of emotional abuse that can lead to feelings of despair, anxiety, depression, and guilt. If you’ve been love bombed, look for support from non-judgmental, understanding friends and family members with whom you can share your own feelings about the emotional abuse you have gone through.

If you’re having trouble getting over post-love bombing symptoms, consider psychotherapy with a qualified mental health professional. Immediately seek help if you have experienced physical abuse or even threats of it. You can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233.

With time and effort, you can overcome past abusive relationships and learn to set healthy boundaries. This can help lead the way to a more loving relationship in the future.

If you recognize love bombing in yourself, working with a mental health professional can help address narcissistic traits or other underlying issues driving your behavior in relationships.

We Are Here For You

Love bombing and other relationship issues can’t wait. At Amen Clinics, we’re here for you. We offer in-clinic brain scanning and appointments, as well as mental telehealth, clinical evaluations, and therapy for adults, teens, children, and couples. Find out more by speaking to a specialist today at 855-621-1686 or visit our contact page here.

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Foods That Help With ADD: The Surprising Role Diet Plays in Symptoms

Food plays a powerful role in cognitive function, emotions, and behavior, especially for those with ADD. Foods that help with ADD can decrease the need

If you (or a loved one) have ADD/ADHD, you may struggle with focus and attention, be easily distracted, feel spacey, or be a procrastinator. At some times of the day or on certain days of the week, you may notice that your symptoms seem more pronounced.

You probably chalk it up to stress or bad sleep, but in many cases, it could be what you’re eating that intensifies your symptoms and makes it harder to get things done.

Food can have a powerful effect—either positive or negative—on cognitive function, emotions, and behavior. And it can impact symptoms associated with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), also known as attention deficit disorder (ADD).

The right diet can decrease the amount of ADD/ADHD medication needed. The wrong diet can exacerbate ADD/ADHD symptoms and potentially interfere with the effectiveness of ADHD medications.

At Amen Clinics, dietary interventions are an important part of a treatment plan for ADD/ADHD, a common mental health condition that affects over 6 million kids and 4.4% of adults in the U.S. However, not all people with this condition are alike.

The brain imaging work at Amen Clinics has identified seven types of ADD/ADHD and it’s important to eat for your type. (You can take the Amen Clinics quiz to discover your ADD Type here.)

When patients begin to eat for their ADD Type they tend to notice better mood stability, focus, energy, and stamina as well as less distractibility and fewer sugar cravings. You can too by following these tips.

UNDERSTANDING THE CONNECTION BETWEEN DIET AND ADHD SYMPTOMS

While there is no definitive proof that diet causes or cures attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), research suggests that certain foods and nutrients may play a significant role in managing ADHD symptoms.

A well-balanced diet rich in essential nutrients can help alleviate symptoms, while a diet high in processed foods, sugar, and unhealthy fats may worsen ADHD symptoms.

Understanding the connection between diet and ADHD symptoms is crucial for developing an effective ADHD diet plan. By making mindful food choices, you can support better focus, mood stability, and overall brain health.

THINK HIGHER PROTEIN AND LOWER CARBS FOR MOST ADD TYPES

In general, most people with ADD/ADHD benefit from eating foods that help with ADD, such as those high in protein and low in carbohydrates, to enhance focus and energy levels.

Incorporating foods that help with ADD, such as protein-rich options like beef, poultry, fish, eggs, seeds (pumpkin and sesame), nuts (almonds and walnuts), cheese, and green tea, can naturally boost dopamine levels, which support focus and motivation.

Additionally, it is important to be aware of any food allergies that may impact ADHD symptoms and consult with a healthcare professional to manage them effectively.

ESSENTIAL NUTRIENTS FOR ADHD MANAGEMENT

Certain nutrients are essential for brain health and may help alleviate ADHD symptoms. These include:

  • Omega-3 fatty acids: Found in fatty fish, nuts, and seeds, omega-3 fatty acids support heart health and may improve ADHD symptoms. Incorporating foods like salmon, chia seeds, and walnuts into your diet can be beneficial.
  • Vitamin D: Important for bone health, vitamin D supplements may also help tackle symptoms of inattention and hyperactivity in ADHD. Spending time in the sun and consuming fortified foods can boost your vitamin D levels.
  • Iron: Iron deficiency is a strong predictor of ADHD in children, and iron supplements may improve symptoms. Foods like lean meats, spinach, and lentils are excellent sources of iron.
  • Zinc: Zinc status has been linked to ADHD symptoms, and zinc supplementation may be beneficial. Foods rich in zinc include pumpkin seeds, chickpeas, and cashews.
  • Complex carbohydrates: Whole grains, fruits, and vegetables are rich in complex carbohydrates, which can help prevent blood sugar spikes and improve focus. Opt for foods like brown rice, quinoa, and sweet potatoes.
  • Protein-rich foods: Lean meats, eggs, and nuts are rich in protein, which can help maintain focus and attention. Starting your day with a protein-packed breakfast can set a positive tone for the rest of the day.

SPECIAL ADHD DIET RECOMMENDATIONS FOR TYPE 3 OVERFOCUSED ADD

The recommendation for a higher-protein, lower-carb diet isn’t the case for people with Type 3 Overfocused ADD. This ADD Type is associated with low serotonin, in addition to the low dopamine levels that are seen in the other types.

The Overfocused ADD Type is often associated with excessive worry, moodiness, rigid thinking, and irritability. With this type, the problem isn’t that you can’t pay attention, it’s that you can’t stop paying attention, which means you get stuck on negative thoughts or behaviors.

A higher-protein, lower-carb diet that improves focus may cause people with Overfocused ADD to focus even more on the things that bother them.

For individuals with Overfocused ADD, the best foods that help with ADD are smart carbs, such as sweet potatoes, apples, blueberries, carrots, gluten-free steel-cut oatmeal, quinoa, and chickpeas, which help increase serotonin and promote mood stability.

 

In some cases, a highly restrictive approach—such as the few foods diet or an elimination diet may be considered to identify potential food intolerances that could worsen symptoms.

FOODS TO AVOID WITH ADHD

Certain foods may worsen ADHD symptoms or trigger allergies and sensitivities. These include:

  • Sugary foods: High sugar consumption is linked to inattention and impulsivity in adults with ADHD. Reducing sugar intake can help stabilize energy levels and improve focus.
  • Artificial food additives: Artificial colors, flavors, and preservatives may exacerbate ADHD symptoms in some individuals. Reading labels and choosing natural, whole foods can make a difference.
  • Processed meats: Processed meats, such as hot dogs and sausages, contain artificial additives and preservatives that may worsen ADHD symptoms. Opt for fresh, unprocessed meats instead.
  • Foods high in unhealthy fats: Foods high in saturated and trans fats, such as fried foods and processed snacks, may worsen ADHD symptoms. Choosing healthy fats like those found in avocados, olive oil, and nuts can support better brain health.

KICK THE CAFFEINE AND SUGAR CONSUMPTION HABIT

A brain imaging study in Human Brain Mapping shows that caffeine decreases overall blood flow to the brain, which in turn will make ADD /ADHD symptoms worse over time in all seven types.

Based on over 30 years of clinical practice at Amen Clinics, caffeine decreases the effectiveness of medication and supplement treatments and increases the number of side effects people have from medication.

For some individuals, a highly restrictive foods diet may be necessary to identify and eliminate problematic foods that exacerbate ADHD symptoms.

Rule out refined carbs: Simple carbohydrate foods zap concentration. Refined carbs are loaded with sugar or substances that are easily broken down into sugar in the body. They trigger a quick spike and then a crash in blood sugar levels that leaves people feeling spacey, confused, tired, and inattentive.

In addition, simple carbs spike serotonin levels in the brain, which makes you feel temporarily happier and more relaxed. Sounds great, but serotonin can also give people a “don’t worry, be happy” attitude that drains motivation and drive. Not exactly the best mindset for work or school.

Replace refined carbohydrates with foods that help with ADD, like smart carbs such as sweet potatoes, gluten-free oatmeal, and quinoa, to stabilize energy and improve focus.

FOCUS ON PROTEIN-RICH FOODS FOR BREAKFAST

When it comes to what we eat at mealtime, Americans have it all wrong. We tend to eat simple carbs in the morning and have more protein-based meals at night.

However, eating a typical breakfast of pancakes, waffles, muffins, bagels, or cereal can increase ADD/ADHD-like symptoms and set you up for a challenging day at the office or in the classroom.

People with ADD/ADHD should eat protein in the morning. Protein, found in meat, nuts, or eggs, boosts dopamine levels and helps us feel more driven, motivated, and focused.

Start your day with foods that help with ADD, such as hard-boiled eggs, nuts, chopped veggies, and fruit, or a protein drink like the Focus and Energy Smoothie. These options boost dopamine levels and set you up for a focused, productive day.

For those considering the few foods diet or an elimination diet, it is essential to ensure that breakfast includes a variety of protein sources to maintain balanced nutrition.

SNACK FOR SUCCESS

For many parents, the go-to after-school snack for their kids involves a few cookies and a soda—a nasty combo of refined carbs and caffeine. This is followed by a reminder to kids that it’s time to do their homework.

In this all-too-common scenario, parents unintentionally sabotage their children’s ability to concentrate on their homework and complete it.

For snacks, choose foods that help with ADD, like an apple with almond butter or red bell peppers with hummus, to maintain stable energy and concentration levels throughout the day.

Identifying and managing food allergies is crucial for individuals with ADHD, as certain allergens can significantly impact symptoms.

Avoid potential food allergens: Avoiding potential allergens is essential, but replacing them with foods that help with ADD, such as naturally nutrient-dense, unprocessed options, can significantly improve symptoms.

Food additives and colorings, such as red dye 40, can cause hyperactivity in children with no history of the problem, according to a study in the prestigious journal The Lancet.

Clinical practice at Amen Clinics suggests this may affect adult patients, too. In other research from the ADHD Research Centre in the Netherlands, 85% of children who followed an elimination diet showed an improvement of 50% or more and no longer met the criteria for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.

COMMON FOOD SENSITIVITIES AND ADHD

Some people with ADHD may have food sensitivities or allergies that can trigger or worsen symptoms. Common food sensitivities include:

  • Gluten: Some people with ADHD may have a gluten intolerance or sensitivity, which can trigger symptoms. Exploring gluten-free options like quinoa, rice, and gluten-free oats can be helpful.
  • Dairy: Dairy products contain lactose, which can be difficult for some people to digest, leading to symptoms. Trying lactose-free or plant-based alternatives can provide relief.
  • Soy: Soy is a common allergen that can trigger symptoms in some people with ADHD. Being mindful of soy ingredients in processed foods and opting for soy-free products can be beneficial.
  • Nuts and seeds: While nuts and seeds are a healthy snack, some people with ADHD may have an allergy or sensitivity to certain types. Identifying and avoiding specific allergens is crucial.

It’s essential to consult with a healthcare professional, such as an integrative medicine physician or functional psychiatry practitioner, to identify food sensitivities and develop a personalized ADHD diet plan. By understanding and managing these sensitivities, you can create a diet that supports better focus, mood, and overall well-being.

We Are Here For You

Emotional trauma, substance abuse, depression, and other mental health issues can’t wait. At Amen Clinics, we’re here for you. We offer in-clinic brain scanning and appointments, as well as mental telehealth, clinical evaluations, and therapy for adults, teens, children, and couples. Find out more by speaking to a specialist today at 888-288-9834 or visit our contact page here.

Keator DB, et al. Adverse childhood experiences, brain function, and psychiatric diagnoses in a large adult clinical cohort. Frontiers in Psychiatry, Volume 15 (2024). https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyt.2024.1401745

Anda, Robert F et al. “The enduring effects of abuse and related adverse experiences in childhood. A convergence of evidence from neurobiology and epidemiology.” European archives of psychiatry and clinical neuroscience vol. 256,3 (2006): 174-86. doi:10.1007/s00406-005-0624-4

Gu, Wenjie et al. “Impact of adverse childhood experiences on the symptom severity of different mental disorders: a cross-diagnostic study.” General psychiatry vol. 35,2 e100741. 22 Apr. 2022, doi:10.1136/gpsych-2021-100741

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10 Things Parents Should NEVER Do

10 Things Parents Should Never Do
Based on Tens of Thousands of Patients at Amen Clinics, Our Child Psychiatrists Have Identified 10 Bad Parenting Habits You Should Avoid.

As parents, it’s common to focus on parenting strategies that will help you raise mentally strong kids, but you may be overlooking what NOT to do. These people are typically well-intentioned, but their parenting skills aren’t helping them get the results they desire.

Based on tens of thousands of patients at Amen Clinics, our child psychiatrists have seen parents who unknowingly engage in habits that are counterproductive. Here’s a look at 10 bad parenting habits you should avoid.

If you want to learn more about what too many parents are doing wrong, tune in to the Change Your Brain Every Day podcast, hosted by Dr. Daniel Amen and his wife Tana Amen. Their episode on parenting “don’ts” is available wherever you get your favorite podcasts.

10 BAD PARENTING HABITS

  1. Ignore your child’s brain.

Your child’s brain controls everything they do—how they think, behave, and relate to others. When their brain works right, they work right, but when their brain is troubled, they are more likely to have trouble in their life. And if they have problems in their life, you have problems in yours.

Healthy brain function is critical for focus, mood stability, motivation, academic performance, and so much more. But most parents don’t think about the health of their child’s brain. This is a major mistake. If you want your child to be their best, you must teach them to love and care for their brain.

The brain SPECT imaging work at Amen Clinics shows that a child’s brain health is linked to emotional and behavioral issues. The SPECT scans below show:

  • Healthy brain
  • Traumatic brain injury (TBI)
  • Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), also called attention deficit disorder (ADD
  1. Rarely spend quality time with your child.

Healthy parent-child relationships require “special time” together. If you don’t spend time with them one-on-one, they are likely to develop resentment and rebel against you.

One of the most effective things you can do is spend at least 20 minutes of quality time each day with your child—listening and doing something they want to do (within reason).

Silence your phone so you can pay 100% attention to your child. Research has found that when parents are always distracted by their devices, it interferes with a child’s emotional intelligence development. A child may act out and behave poorly in an attempt to get your attention.

  1. Be a poor listener.

When you are disagreeing with your child and they are talking, do you interrupt them? Are you focusing on understanding what they are saying, or are you thinking of how you are going to respond to them?

Being a bad listener sends the message that your child isn’t important enough to merit your attention. And this can have devastating effects on their self-esteem.

Learn active listening. Don’t judge or criticize what they are saying, rather repeat back what you hear. Ultimately, your child can solve a lot of their own problems.

  1. Use name calling.

Never tell your child “You’re a spoiled brat” or say “You’re stupid” when they’ve made a mistake or done something wrong. This is not helpful for their development.

Children will internalize these negative names and begin to believe them, which can adversely affect their self-esteem.

  1. Be overly permissive.

Letting your child do whatever they want may make them “happy” in the moment, but it can be detrimental in the long run. Multiple studies have demonstrated that the children who grow up to have the most mental health problems had permissive parents who never set appropriate boundaries.

Children need clear boundaries to help them understand what is and is not OK. Do this by being firm and kind. Develop a set of rules and stick by them.

  1. Fail to supervise your child.

The brain’s frontal lobes—which are involved in planning, judgment, and impulse control—are not fully developed until about age 25. Therefore, you need to act as your child’s frontal lobes until theirs develop. Failing to do so increases the chances that your child will engage in risky behaviors that can have major consequences.

Healthy supervision means checking in on what your child is doing and with whom and helping them make good decisions. This doesn’t make you a helicopter parent—rather, it shows how much you care.

  1. Be a lousy role model.

If your motto is “Do as I say, not as I do,” you’re setting yourself up for trouble. Being a poor role model means your child will likely pick up on that and follow your lead.

If you lie, cheat, are rude or disrespectful, eat an unhealthy diet, and never address your own health, your child is going to follow your example. So, model how you want your child to be.

  1. Only notice what your child does wrong.

Noticing all the little mistakes your child makes infuses them with a negative mind-set and self-view. This can carry over into adulthood and hold them back from reaching their potential.

In addition, if the only time you notice them is when they are doing something wrong, you are teaching them that doing something bad is the best way to get any attention from you.

Instead, do whatever you can to catch them doing things right as often as possible. By doing that, you will reinforce their good behavior and good choices.

  1. Ignore their mental health issues.

Mental health issues, such as ADHD, anxiety disorders, depression, bipolar disorder, and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), can have a devastating impact on your child’s life. On average, it takes 11 years from the time a child starts to develop mental health symptoms to when they are seen for their first psychiatric evaluation.

In the meantime, children with untreated mental health conditions can struggle to succeed in school, in their friendships, and in life. These types of problems can rob them of their mental strength, happiness, self-esteem, motivation, and focus. As their parent, pay attention and take them for an evaluation if you have any concerns.

  1. Ignore your own mental health problems.

If you’re suffering from any mental health conditions, it can devastate your children. Remember the saying, “Put on your own oxygen mask first.” You need to take care of yourself and be the best version of you so you can also be the best parent to them.

If you have trouble with focus, anxiety issues, depression symptoms, or other mental health issues, seek help from a mental health professional.

LEARN BETTER PARENTING SKILLS

Discover more common parenting mistakes and helpful parenting strategies on Dr. Amen and Tana’s Change Your Brain Every Day podcast, available wherever you get your favorite podcasts.

Reviewed by Amen Clinics Inc. Clinicians

We Are Here For You

Behavior problems, ADHD, depression, anxiety, and other childhood mental health issues can’t wait. At Amen Clinics, we’re here for you. We offer in-clinic brain scanning and appointments, as well as mental telehealth, clinical evaluations, and therapy for adults, teens, children, and couples. Find out more by speaking to a specialist today at 888-288-9834 or visit our contact page here.

Keator DB, et al. Adverse childhood experiences, brain function, and psychiatric diagnoses in a large adult clinical cohort. Frontiers in Psychiatry, Volume 15 (2024). https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyt.2024.1401745

Anda, Robert F et al. “The enduring effects of abuse and related adverse experiences in childhood. A convergence of evidence from neurobiology and epidemiology.” European archives of psychiatry and clinical neuroscience vol. 256,3 (2006): 174-86. doi:10.1007/s00406-005-0624-4

Gu, Wenjie et al. “Impact of adverse childhood experiences on the symptom severity of different mental disorders: a cross-diagnostic study.” General psychiatry vol. 35,2 e100741. 22 Apr. 2022, doi:10.1136/gpsych-2021-100741

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Coping with a PTSD Episode: Effective Strategies and Support Options

Coping with a PTSD Episode: Effective Strategies and Support Options
The amygdala (the brain’s fear center) doesn’t forget anything that it has deemed as dangerous and doesn’t discern whether the threat is real or imagined.

Throughout their lifetime, at least half of all people will experience a traumatic event of one kind or another. For some, trauma begins early in life with the devastation of childhood abuse and other maltreatment, including neglect.

Beyond this, there are many other types of events that are inherently traumatic, such as military combat, sexual violence or other physical assaults, serious injury, motor vehicle accidents, being stalked or in a natural disaster as well as surviving a mass shooting or living in a war zone.

Essentially, any event during which a person experiences the fear of actual or threatened death can trigger PTSD symptoms. Some mental health experts suggest that living through the COVID-19 pandemic was yet another event that triggered trauma in some people.

It’s normal for anyone who has endured or witnessed experiences like these to have a strong emotional response that could last for days or weeks.

However, some people have a delayed and/or prolonged reaction to the traumatic event which can lead to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), a serious mental health condition.

This blog will explore what happens during a PTSD episode, offering insights and coping strategies to help you deal with it.

Prevalence and Symptoms of PTSD

According to the Department of Veterans Affairs National Center for PTSD—the mental health services administration for veterans—approximately 7-8% of people in the U.S. will develop PTSD during their life—10% of women and 4% of men.

To be diagnosed with this condition, a person will have some specific PTSD symptoms, including several of these:

  • Recurrent and distressing memories or dreams of the traumatic event that cause severe anxiety

  • Prolonged or noticeable psychological and/or physical reactions, such as extreme fear, to cues resembling the experience

  • Flashbacks of the event or emotional/psychological dissociation during PTSD episodes

  • Avoidance of thoughts, feelings, people, places, or any reminders of what happened, often referred to as avoidance symptoms

  • Difficulty remembering details of the event

  • Changes in memory or thinking patterns or the development of mood symptoms and difficulty experiencing positive emotions and possibly feeling emotionally numb

  • Hypervigilance, trouble sleeping, anger outbursts, trouble concentrating, and suicidal thoughts as well as unhealthy coping strategies such as substance abuse and other self-destructive behaviors

While all these post-traumatic stress disorder symptoms can cause significant impairment, some are more challenging to manage than others.

PTSD AND THE BRAIN

Studies show that PTSD symptoms are largely related to the amygdala, a structure deep in the brain that is best known for our fight-or-flight response.

When in danger, the amygdala assigns an emotional tag to any experience that could be life-threatening. Its function is automatically prioritized over other areas of the brain, including those that govern reasoning and memory.

Not everyone who experiences a traumatic incident will develop post-traumatic stress disorder, but for those who do, seeking treatment with a licensed mental health professional to help you reduce or manage PTSD symptoms can make a world of difference.

Fortunately treating PTSD is possible and mental health services that do this are widely available.

PTSD Episodes: Flashbacks and Dissociation

The amygdala doesn’t forget anything that it has deemed as dangerous and doesn’t discern whether the threat is real or imagined. This plays a big role in untreated post-traumatic stress disorder, especially when these symptoms occur:

  • Flashbacks are a nightmarish and intense reliving of traumatic events. Whether it is momentary or lasts a few minutes, hours, or even days, someone going through a flashback is unable to distinguish intrusive memories from reality.

    Flashbacks are uncontrollable and very vivid, likely evoking strong sensory memories associated with the trauma that was endured and the environment in which it happened.

    Someone experiencing a PTSD trigger and flashback might have heightened anxiety and other reactivity symptoms.

  • Dissociation occurs when a person feels separate or disconnected from their body and surroundings as though they are observing things from outside of themselves.

    This tends to occur automatically as a coping mechanism to manage traumatic memories and the emotions and sensations associated with them in those who develop PTSD. Like flashbacks, dissociative episodes can be fleeting or last for a long time.

The amygdala (the brain’s fear center) doesn’t forget anything that it has deemed as dangerous and doesn’t discern whether the threat is real or imagined. This plays a big role in untreated PTSD. Share on X

Flashbacks and dissociation are often unpredictable and are caused by triggers in the environment that are reminders of the traumatic event. Such cues can be sights, sounds, odors, objects, people, places, or any number of things that are somehow associated—even unconsciously—with the fearful experience and lead to traumatic stress reactions.

During PTSD episodes, the brain responds by activating the amygdala as though real danger is imminent. This in turn causes an increase in heart rate, shallow rapid breathing, perspiration, and panic as the fight or flight system kicks in.

For Steven, an Amen Clinics patient who witnessed a horrific accident that killed 10 people, his hands would start shaking.

“Grounding” to Offset a PTSD Episode

Although they come on quickly, a person will usually have a little bit of warning prior to a flashback or dissociation. For example, they may feel they are losing their connection to reality or things may start to look blurry.

One method for managing PTSD symptoms and not completely losing touch with reality is through a technique known as “grounding,” which is similar to mindfulness.

Just as it sounds, grounding can help a person stay present so that they recognize their oncoming PTSD symptoms for what they are. This technique involves strategies such as these:

  • Engaging each of the senses by identifying things in the immediate environment they can see, smell, touch, taste, and hear

  • Moving around—whether by walking, running, or jumping—to help disrupt the body’s stress response

  • Breathing deeply and slowly to help calm themselves

Mental Health Treatment for PTSD

It is possible to recover from PTSD symptoms, and there are many PTSD treatment options that can be beneficial, including:

1.Talk therapy: Some mental health professionals offer talk therapy treatments, such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which addresses ongoing negative emotions and negative thought patterns.

2.Exposure therapy: Another type of treatment, known as exposure therapy, incorporates present-moment relaxation techniques to help reduce symptoms of PTSD in the presence of a trigger.

Another form of this technique is called prolonged exposure therapy. This allows people to gradually face their feelings related to past traumatic events.

3.EMDR: According to research, one of the most effective treatments for post-traumatic stress disorder is called eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR). This type of psychotherapy is done with a licensed mental health professional or other healthcare provider who is trained and certified in it.

After some sessions for EMDR preparation during which a client will identify triggers, accompanying physical sensations and distressing symptoms, a process called bilateral stimulation (BLS) is used. This involves having clients move their eyes side-to-side as they follow the therapist’s finger, having the client hold a small device in each hand that alternately vibrates.

At the same time, a traumatic memory and associated bodily sensations are recalled simultaneously with the BLS. The distraction of the BLS along with emotional support from the healthcare professional makes thinking and talking about the experience less terrifying or overwhelming.

This method helps the memories of traumatic events get “unstuck” so they can be more fully processed in the brain. This in turn opens the door to greater coping skills and emotional management and fewer negative thoughts related to the trauma or oneself.

4.Antidepressant medications: Mental health professionals may also recommend selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) to help reduce day-to-day symptoms. It’s important to understand that antidepressant medication alone is unlikely to fully treat PTSD symptoms.

In general, doing therapy in conjunction with medication is usually recommended to overcome symptoms of PTSD.

CONSEQUENCES OF UNTREATED PTSD

Sadly, without treatment, many people won’t fully recover from PTSD. In this case, PTSD episodes are likely to continue or worsen with time. For some people, this can aggravate symptoms and may even lead to suicidal thoughts.

The stigma attached to mental disorders holds some individuals back from seeking help. Because of this, it’s important to know that reaching out to a mental health professional for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Understand that the road to recovery from PTSD and other types of trauma may not be a linear one. You may experience setbacks on your healing journey.

However, continued progress can lead to an improvement in mood symptoms, healthier coping strategies, and a greater ability to manage symptoms. Overall, this fosters a greater sense of well-being and more fulfillment in life.

Reviewed by Amen Clinics Inc. Clinicians

We Are Here For You

PTSD and other mental health issues can’t wait. At Amen Clinics, we’re here for you. We offer in-clinic brain scanning and appointments, as well as mental telehealth, clinical evaluations, and therapy for adults, teens, children, and couples. Find out more by speaking to a specialist today at 888-288-9834 or visit our contact page here.

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