
These days, itโs easy to get weighed down by all the pessimism and despair associated with the coronavirus pandemic, the lockdown, and the faltering economy. The human brain is hardwired for negativity, so weโre naturally on the alert for anything that could threaten our survival. Even in the darkest times, however, you can train your brain to actively seek out the positive as a way to balance that negativity bias and boost your mood.
Amen Clinics polled its employees and patients to find the little glimmers of hope and happiness that are lifting people up during these trying times.
Here are 51 good things they said have come out of the pandemic. How many good things can you find in your life?
- โItโs been a blessing getting to spend more time with my kids, who both came back home from college.โ
- โMy husband normally works really long hours at the office, so he never really noticed how bad our sonโs ADD was. Since heโs been working from home due to the pandemic and seeing our son all day long, he finally realized that he seriously needed treatment. So we took him in for a full evaluation, including a brain scan. We learned his ADD type and have started treatment, and itโs working! If my husband hadnโt been working from home, it might have taken years for me to convince him to get our son evaluated.โ
- โI absolutely love getting to hang out with my dog all day.โ
- โMy spouse and I have really reconnected on a deeper level since the lockdown began. Weโre talking more about things that are actually important rather than just our daily to-do lists.โ
- โBeing forced to break my old routines has helped me see that Iโm not stuck in my old ways. I can change. Itโs made me feel more empowered to make positive changes in my life.โ
- โIโve been walking a lot more. I know itโs good for my health, but itโs also really good for my mood, which is great for someone like me with depression. I feel a lot more energized and a lot more upbeat after I do it.โ
- โNo more hellish commute to work. I can start my day without all that aggravation. Itโs so much better for my mindset.โ
- โI pick up some groceries each week for my elderly neighbor, and it makes me feel like Iโm doing something positive.โ
- โI always thought I was a terrible cook, but Iโve been spending more time in the kitchen and am actually getting pretty good at it.โ
- โEverything in my life was always such a rush, but now it feels like Iโm allowed to slow down a bit. I feel like I can breathe again, and I like it.โ
- โI used to just drive to work then drive home and shut the front door. I never really knew any of my neighbors and felt kind of isolated. Iโve started walking more and am getting to know my neighbors, and itโs really nice. Iโve got more of a sense of community like weโre all in this together.โ
- โIโm an introvert, and Iโm loving not having to make small talk with people all day long. I didnโt realize how stressful that was for me.โ
- โIโve kind of fun wearing cute face masks that show my personality.โ
- โIโm realizing how important the little things in life are, like that feeling you get when you score some disinfectant wipes at the store.โ
- โI have more time for self-care because Iโm not spending 2 hours a day commuting to and from work.โ
- โIn my neighborhood, a family of musicians has been holding Friday evening front-porch concerts. Everyone is wearing a mask and physical distancing, but itโs such a treat.โ
- โThere are some really great TV series and movies Iโm discovering.โ
- โIโm learning to embrace my โquarantine hairโ and not worry so much about the gray.โ
- โIโve been meaning to address my depression and anxiety for a long time, but I always made the excuse that I couldnโt take time off from work to do it. But since Iโm only working part-time now, I decided to finally get a brain scan and find the root cause of my issues. Itโs really been life-changing.โ
- โIโve been reading more books.โ
- โWe donโt have any of those obnoxious door-to-door salespeople banging on the door anymore.โ
- โItโs so nice seeing kidsโ chalk drawings on the sidewalks. It reminds me of my own childhood.โ
- โIโve discovered podcasts. I listen while Iโm doing my home workouts.โ
- โIโm so glad I donโt have to fill up the car with gas every week.โ
- โItโs so great not having to take the subway to work.โ
- โI never forget to take my lunch to work.โ
- โWhat a relief to not have to put on makeup every day.โ
- โIโve been redecorating the house and making it feel more like โme.โโ
- โIโve been taking more naps.โ
- โUnless I have a Zoom meeting for work, Iโve been living in comfy sweats.โ
- โThe return of game nights with the familyโitโs like old-fashioned fun. If Iโd suggested this to my kids 6 months ago, thereโs no way they would have done this.โ
- โI planted a little garden, and Iโm loving seeing it grow.โ
- โIโm feeling more grateful for the little things these days. Just waking up and feeling healthy is something to appreciate.โ
- โIโm actually talking to some of my friends and family more often thanks to FaceTime and Zoom.โ
- โIโve gotten to celebrate birthdays with friends who live far away on Zoom.โ
- โI feel like I finally have time to focus on some of those goals that Iโve been meaning to get to.โ
- โThere are so many online courses and trainings that are being offered for free now that Iโm getting to learn some new skills.โ
- โWeโve finally been getting to some of those home improvements weโd been putting off for so long.โ
- โItโs kind of cool how much money you can save by learning to cut and color your own hair.โ
- โHow great is grocery store delivery? Why didnโt I know about that earlier?โ
- โI never used to be able to afford to go to conferences because of the travel costs, but now I can attend virtually without the added airfare and hotel expenses.โ
- โWeโve got more time to focus on creative hobbies. Iโve been writing more, and my spouse is getting back into painting.โ
- โI always wanted to be more consistent with meditation, and now I can use the time I would have spent doing my hair and makeup in the morning to meditate. Iโve been doing it every morning, and it really helps me throughout the entire day.โ
- โIt sounds really basic, but since Iโm not around the soda vending machines at work, Iโve been drinking more water, and it actually makes a big difference.โ
- โThe best thing for me has been growing a beard so I donโt have to shave every day.โ
- โThere have been several car โparadesโ to celebrate kidsโ birthdays in the neighborhood. What a great idea! I hope thatโs a trend that sticks around even after the pandemic is over.โ
- โIt really warms my heart that more people are adopting shelter animals.โ
- โIโm so glad that as a society weโve reduced carbon emissions and weโve had cleaner air.โ
- โBeing able to see my therapist from the comfort of my own home using video therapy has been so helpful for me.โ
- โI like that so many restaurants are doing outdoor dining now.โ
- โTwo words: road trips! Weโve been taking drives for weekend getaways where weโre isolated from others but out in nature. Itโs my favorite thing thatโs come out of this whole mess.โ
Depression, anxiety, ADD/ADHD, and other mental health issues canโt wait. During these uncertain times, your mental well-being is more important than ever and waiting until life gets back to โnormalโ is likely to make your symptoms worsen over time.
At Amen Clinics, weโre here for you. We offer in-clinic brain scanning and appointments, as well as mental telehealth, remote clinical evaluations, and video therapy for adults, children, and couples. Find out more by speaking to a specialist today at 888-288-9834. If all our specialists are busy helping others, you can also schedule a time to talk.
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