The Best Natural Ways to Treat Borderline Personality Disorder

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BPD is complex but highly treatable. Learn symptoms, misdiagnosis risks, and natural strategies guided by brain imaging.

Do you or a loved one experience intense emotional dysregulation or rapid shifts in mood? Are you prone to impulsive behavior, unexplained outbursts, or black-and-white thinking? Or do you struggle with a distorted self-image?

These are just some signs of borderline personality disorder (BPD). While recognized by psychiatrists as far back as the 1930s, BPD often goes misdiagnosed or improperly treated, even today.

Borderline personality disorder is a serious and often misunderstood mental health condition, but itโ€™s also highly treatable. That’s why itโ€™s so important to understand and recognize the symptoms of borderline personality disorder.

Fortunately, a brain-based, integrative approach to treating BPD can lead to lasting recovery. Borderline personality disorder treatment and healing are possibleโ€”using natural, non-pharmaceutical strategies.

The key is to employ a holistic, or whole-person, approach. For example, functional brain imaging with a SPECT scan helps avoid misdiagnosis and pinpoint root causes of symptoms to guide an effective treatment plan. And targeted treatments contribute to long-term healing.

This blog will demystify the condition by exploring borderline personality disorder symptoms, causes, treatments, and moreโ€”including tips on how to support a loved one with this diagnosis.

Borderline personality disorder is frequently mistaken for bipolar disorder, posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), or depression, which can lead to years of ineffective treatment.

WHAT IS BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER?

The roots of borderline personality disorder stretch back to 1938, when psychiatrist Adolph Stern first used the term โ€œborderline personality.โ€

According to clinical guidelines of BPD, Stern wished to describe patients who โ€œfit frankly neither into the psychotic nor into the psychoneurotic group.โ€ The word โ€œborderlineโ€ was used because it seemed to โ€œborderโ€ on these other conditions.

It wasnโ€™t until the 3rd edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, in 1980, that it received its own entry. Even today, however, it remains one of the most misunderstood and stigmatized mental health conditions.

Unlike mood disorders, BPD is a personality disorder, characterized by emotional dysregulation. Extreme shifts in mood and behavior, with difficulty controlling emotions, are common symptoms. The resulting periods of anger, anxiety, or depression may last a few hours or days.

Borderline also tends to be associated with a distorted self-image, as well as rapid and unexplainable changes in values and interests. This may lead to extreme views of people and situations, as seen in black-and-white thinking.

When interacting with a person with borderline personality disorder, you may notice symptoms like emotional outbursts, impulsiveness, and mood swings. All the issues listed above can affect an individualโ€™s education, career, and relationships.

WHAT ARE SYMPTOMS OF BPD? AND WHY IS BPD OFTEN MISDIAGNOSED?

BPD usually begins not in childhood, but in a personโ€™s late teens or early 20s. Borderline personality disorder symptoms include:

  • Fear of abandonment
  • Extreme mood swings
  • Unstable relationships
  • A shifting self-image
  • Feelings of emptiness, isolation, and boredom
  • Self-harm, such as cutting or suicidal behavior
  • Impulsivity and self-destructive behaviors, such as overspending, unsafe sex, or aggressive driving
  • Intense anger followed by guilt and shame
  • Difficulty trusting others or losing touch with reality, such as paranoia and periods of dissociation

Those with BPD may also show signs of other mental health issues, including depression, bipolar disorder (BD), anxiety disorders, or eating disorders. And BPD is frequently mistaken for bipolar disorder, posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), or depression.

Moreover, people with borderline personality who are not properly treated may self-medicate with drugs, including alcohol. This tends to worsen symptoms or lead to addiction, which generates its own problems.

Related: 9 Things Not to Do If You Have Borderline Personality Disorder

More women than men are diagnosed with BPD, at a ratio of 75% to 25%. Still, some experts believe that males are simply undiagnosed or misdiagnosed. Menโ€™s borderline personality disorder symptoms are more likely to be labeled as PTSD or depression.

Other research has pointed out that symptoms stemming from female hormonal changes, as well as chronic infections like Lyme disease, can be mistaken for BPD.

Related: Can Lyme Disease Change Your Personality?

With many mental health overlaps possible, itโ€™s important to address any co-occurring issues that occur with BPD. Only then can a person begin the healing processโ€”and find optimal success with treatment.

BPD VS BIPOLAR DISORDER: KEY DIFFERENCES

When comparing BPD vs. bipolar disorder, itโ€™s easy to see why misdiagnosis is a common pitfall. Both conditions have symptoms such as intense emotions, mood instability, and impulsivity.

However, bipolar disorder is characterized by cycles of manic and depressive episodes. Mania is associated with extremely elevated mood, racing thoughts, and grandiose ideas. Depressive episodes bring low energy and mood, loss of interest in pleasurable activities, and suicidal thoughts.

These bipolar disorder cycles tend to last longer than the rapid mood shifts associated with BPD. However, there is also a form of BD called rapid-cycling bipolar disorder, in which shifts are accelerated.

To reduce confusion, a study established that certain symptoms are present in BPD but not usually in BD, even the rapid-cycling type. These BPD symptoms include:

  • Avoiding abandonment
  • Interpersonal instability
  • Identity disturbance
  • Chronic emptiness
  • Intense anger
  • Paranoia/dissociation

Furthermore, dramatic mood changes in BPD generally stem from identifiable triggers (stressful events), while bipolar disorder cycles may not follow a predictable pattern. Ultimately, accurate diagnosis is critical to ensure that the correct condition is being addressed with treatment.

WHAT CAUSES BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER?

According to a 2024 comprehensive review, 0.7 percent to 2.7 percent of the general adult population will develop borderline personality disorder over the course of a lifetime. Among those receiving psychiatric services, that number jumps to 12 percent to 22 percent.

The review notes that research strongly suggests links between the development of BPD and influences like genetic factors, trauma, and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs).

Related: The Long-Term Consequences of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

All the potential underlying neurobiological factors are still being studied. Still, the review listed several attributes possibly associated with BPD, including:

  • A blunted cortisol response, reflecting a compensating downโ€regulation after adversity and stress
  • Decreased oxytocin levels
  • Hyperactivity of the brainโ€™s amygdala and hippocampal area during emotional processing
  • Impairments in habituation of the amygdala when faced with repeated negative stimuli

Another study estimates that heredity makes up 46% of the risk for developing BPD, while 54% stems from environmental factors.

Press Play for Dr. Amenโ€™s Take on BPD

In this episode of โ€ช@PursuitOfWellnessPodcast with Mari Llewellyn, Dr. Amen describes why he is not a fan of borderline personality disorder as a diagnosis and gives his opinion on a better way to think about the condition and how to treat it.

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HOW DOES AMEN CLINICS DIAGNOSE AND TREAT BPD?

Brain imaging is an effective way to pinpoint the root causes of symptoms while assessing possible co-occurring conditions and BPD. At Amen Clinics, brain SPECT imaging is combined with a whole-person evaluation to guide clinicians in creating a personalized treatment plan.

SPECT, which stands for single photon emission computed tomography, measures blood flow and activity and shows abnormal brain activity in individuals with BPD and/or bipolar disorder. Over decades of performing scans, Amen Clinics has determined that borderline personality disorder is often associated with abnormal activity in the areas of the brain involved with fear, emotions, and impulsivity.

If symptoms are related to outside causesโ€”such as chronic infections or mild traumatic brain injuriesโ€”instead of BPD, a SPECT scan can help identify them. Brain scans are also helpful for understanding co-existing conditions that could affect the course of treatment.

10 NATURAL STRATEGIES THAT SUPPORT HEALING FROM BPD

Some people are surprised to learn that natural treatment for BPD, rather than prescription medication, is the #1 recommendation for counteracting borderline personality disorder symptoms.

Brain-healthy, evidence-backed lifestyle interventions should complement professional treatment for best results. Here are some natural strategies that will help individuals with borderline personality disorder:

  • Psychotherapy: As a first line of defense, try approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy or dialectical behavioral therapy. Meanwhile, family therapy can help improve interpersonal relationships.
  • Brain-healthy diet: Eat foods that nourish the brain. Aim for a variety of colorful vegetables, plus healthy fats and lean protein, at every meal.
  • Address allergens: Eliminate sugar, soy, dairy, gluten, corn, artificial dyes, preservatives, and food additives.
  • Avoid toxins: Limit alcohol and other drugs.
  • Avoid stimulants: Limit caffeine.
  • Nutrient supplementation: Ensure intake of important vitamins and minerals, especially omega-3 fatty acids, magnesium, vitamin D, and probiotics.
  • Daily exercise: Physical activity boosts mood and increases blood flow to the brain.
  • Stress-management techniques: To soothe anxiety, try deep breathing, meditation, gentle movement such as yoga, and journaling.

Related: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: What Is It and Who Can Benefit?

FAMILY SUPPORT: 5 PRACTICAL TIPS FOR CARING FOR SOMEONE WITH BPD

Family support for BPD will help you thrive despite a borderline diagnosisโ€”whether your own or a loved oneโ€™s. If you donโ€™t know how to assist a family member with BPD, here are some practical strategies that can help:

  1. Donโ€™t walk on eggshells.

Emotional dysregulation and mood swings are hallmark signs of borderline personality disorder. But you donโ€™t need to tiptoe around your loved one in fear. Suppressing your thoughts and feelings to avoid a confrontation isnโ€™t a healthy or sustainable solution over the long term.

  1. Practice the 3 Cs.

Set healthy boundaries with yourself. Rather than being swept up in your loved oneโ€™s emotional ups and downs, repeat the 3 Cs:

I didnโ€™t cause it.

I canโ€™t cure it.

I canโ€™t control it.

Understanding what you are and are not responsible for will prevent you from taking on negative feelings, like guilt and remorse.

  1. Avoid isolation.

When someone struggles with BPD, it can be tempting to isolate. To push back against the feelings of hopelessness that accompany this disorder, ensure your loved one stays connected. Suggest meetups with family, friends, or support groups to provide encouragement and understanding.

  1. Interpret emotions, not words.

Someone with BPD can get angry and lash out verbally. Rather than retaliating, remain calm and focus on the emotions behind what theyโ€™re sharing. Simply acknowledging their pain can help build trustworthy relationships and reduce reactivity.

  1. Be patient.

When recovering from BPD, understand that healing takes time. Pace yourself for a marathon, not a sprint. Set realistic goals along the way but understand that setbacks are part of the process. Take baby stepsโ€”and celebrate wins, big or small.

Ultimately, itโ€™s important to set healthy boundaries and learn communication techniques to best help your loved one with BPD. Armed with these strategies, family members can empower themselves to offer supportโ€”without suffering from burnout or enabling harmful behaviors.

WHY EARLY TREATMENT MATTERS AND WHY THEREโ€™S HOPE

While untreated cases can be devastating, properly diagnosed BPD is highly treatable. With the right interventions, many patients dramatically improve within two to 10 years, often no longer meeting criteria for the diagnosis.

In fact, according to a decades-long study with results published in 2025, BPD is now considered the most treatable major mental health condition. After following more than 300 people diagnosed with BPD since 1992, researchers found that proper treatment, especially psychotherapy, can promote healthy, productive lives in these patients.

Borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, and other mental health conditions canโ€™t wait. At Amen Clinics, we provide personalized, science-backed treatment plans designed to target the root causes of your symptoms. Our 360-approach includes brain SPECT imaging, clinical evaluations, innovative therapeutic techniques, medications (when necessary), and holistic lifestyle recommendations to promote the health of your brain, body, and mind. Speak to a specialist today at 888-288-9834 or visit our contact page here.

Amen Clinics

Founded in 1989 by double-board certified psychiatrist and neuroscientist Daniel G. Amen, MD, Amen Clinics Inc. (ACI) is known as the best brain and mental health company in the world. Our clinical staff includes over 50 healthcare specialists, including adult and child psychiatrists, integrative (functional) medicine physicians, naturopaths, addiction specialists, forensic psychiatrists, geriatric psychiatrists, nutritionists, licensed therapists, and more. Our clinicians have all been hand-selected and personally trained by Dr. Amen, whose mission is to end mental illness by creating a revolution in brain health. Over the last 35-plus years, ACI has built the worldโ€™s largest database of functional brain scansโ€”over 250,000 SPECT scans on patients from 155 countriesโ€”related to how people think, feel, and behave.

FAQ

Yes. At Amen Clinics, weโ€™ve seen many people improve through a comprehensive treatment plan that includes therapy, targeted nutraceuticals, brain-healthy habits, and functional brain imaging for BPD. Medication may help in some cases, but itโ€™s not the only path to healing.

While both involve mood changes, borderline personality disorder is defined by rapid, emotionally reactive shifts often triggered by relationships or fear of abandonment. Bipolar disorder involves longer mood cycles and distinct episodes of mania or depression. Accurate diagnosis is essential, and thatโ€™s why we use brain SPECT imaging to help distinguish between the two.

We donโ€™t rely on guesswork or labels. Our approach includes brain SPECT imaging, a thorough assessment of your biological, psychological, social, and spiritual health, and a customized treatment plan that supports long-term transformation. We treat the whole person, not just the symptoms.

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